UrbanBaby

07.18.08, 20:12 PM General Topics
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Very simply - cant stand my dh anymore. EVERYTHING he says and does drives me nuts. Sex like 2-3x in last 6 mths...its pretty much over isnt it? [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 07.18.08, 08:12 PM Flag

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so who, or what, changed? I assume you loved him when you married him right? What's going on? [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.18.08, 08:16 PM Flag

op-i think he is really lame - just not enough for me mentally, physically or financially - feels like i am settling on so many levels.he seemed like a catch when i married him - but frankly is just not "enough" for me on too many levels. he drives me crazy - just not sure how to leave [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.18.08, 08:20 PM Flag

have you ever thought about trying to adjust your attitude? If you were looking for "a catch", you weren't really seeing him as a person. Now that you decided he isn't such a bargain, you hate him. I think you should look at yourself here. A DH can't make you happy. You have to do that. If you leave, you will find another "catch". Maybe it will last and maybe not. Probably not. Sorry but that's my suggestion. GL [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.18.08, 08:24 PM Flag

op-there is a lot more there...for one he has cheated in the past, he is also just a really rigid person and he just lost another job (not his fault granted) and now we might lose our home etc...on top of him just not being a good match - life with him is a mess [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.18.08, 08:26 PM Flag

well that sounds very different from what you originally said. Have you tried therapy? I mean for just yourself to help you sort out the issues here. Sounds complicated. Sorry [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.18.08, 08:27 PM Flag

Dont have a baby, as I did. Read my long post. Leave now [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.18.08, 08:29 PM Flag