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07.17.08, 20:00 PM General Topics
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was i out of place? i found out earlier this year that my sister's dh had had a three year affair. he didn't tell her, she found out. since then they've been back and forth if they are going to stay together or not (they have a 6yo together). currently he is moved out and they are semi-separated. i've had to see him a couple of times at family functions when they were on an upswing and it is extremely uncomfortable for me because i think what he did was wnexcusable and she should leave him. tonight she calls me to say he's stuck at jfk and can he sleep on our couch. i said no. she protested that he is her son's father and i said if he had enough for hotels to have an affair he can pay for one now. she said that my comment was very hurtful. should i let him stay here? or hold my guns? [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 07.17.08, 08:00 PM Flag
 

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I think the comment was hurtful. Perhaps you should have said that you would have a hard time being civil to him because of how much he hurt your sister and nephew. You were not at a place to welcome him into your home. But the hotel and money comment was probably very cutting to your sister. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 08:03 PM Flag
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so what the hell do i do now?? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 08:04 PM Flag
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NP: he can figure it out. Let him deal [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 08:08 PM Flag
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np: you call and apologize for the way it came out..that you could have done a better job but you are suffering from diarrhea mouth [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 03:15 AM Flag
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If your sister can hande it, why can't you? People don't always split fter an affair, she should have never told you, I'm sure she's sorry she did now, because she is judged and probably feels funny about you thinking bad of her for her decision to stay. I feel bad for her and yes, you should let her husband sleep on the couch if she is asking. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 08:12 PM Flag
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as if! that loser is your sister issue. no reason to make it yours. i would've done the same thing. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 09:09 PM Flag
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your comment was hurtful..the truth hurts doesn't it. If she knows you have issues with him she had balls calling and asking you to put him up for the night. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 03:14 AM Flag
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i would have said the same thing by the way. She has to understand that his actions effect everyone in the family and it is her choice to take him back but you dont have to like it [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.18.08, 03:18 AM Flag
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