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07.17.08, 12:34 PM General Topics
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This might sound weird but..ds (almost 3)lately has been playing with my zipper or putting his hand on me (down there). I can't explain it but it is more like if he is sitting on my lap or standing next to me watching tv he will slide his hand there. I always just move it away and redirect. Should I be concerned someone is doing this to him? I know I am probably paranoid..but just wondering what other moms thought. [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 07.17.08, 12:34 PM Flag
 

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I think that it's curiosity...my dds do this to me. I just explain to them that they can not touch me there and that no one can touch them there except mommy when cleaning.. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 12:35 PM Flag
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he's two! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 12:37 PM Flag
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op - i dont know how much he will understand if i tell him that. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 12:38 PM Flag
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Tell him what? what do you say? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 12:39 PM Flag
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Say it in a way that he understands. I tell mine "no that's not nice. You can not touch mommy down there." that's it, a couple of repeats and he'll get it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 12:39 PM Flag
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np "down there" always sounds so weird to me when coming from adults. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 12:42 PM Flag
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op - i have tried to teach ds 'penis' etc. but everything is 'hiney' to him. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 12:43 PM Flag
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Jesus Christ...so say what ever word you're comforable with..tis all. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 12:44 PM Flag
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What?! Do you think that they don't understand....LOOK woman, I have a 2 and a 3 yo. THEY DO THAT...I talk to my dds and they understand what I'm saying very well. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 12:38 PM Flag
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I think you are a little looney [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 12:36 PM Flag
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not op: I think that you are the looney one and that you need to not answer posts of this nature. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 12:37 PM Flag
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I was sexually abused as a kid by someone in our house. Maybe I am a little bit...just want to protect him if I need to. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 12:37 PM Flag
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HE'S a two year old. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 12:38 PM Flag
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protect him from what? Your zipper? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 12:39 PM Flag
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I wonder if someone else is doing this to him! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 12:40 PM Flag
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so ask him [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 12:40 PM Flag
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I dont think that will accomplish much. He tends to tell stories at times. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 12:41 PM Flag
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so what do you want from us then? you can't ask him and he won't understand you explaining private parts. so keep him at home with you 24/7 and let him feel you up. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 12:43 PM Flag
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Wow - Whenever I ask him where did he learn something/who told him a certain thing he always says 'uncle john' (my brother)... i need to figure out how to get the info. out of him...but seriously why so nasty? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 12:45 PM Flag
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NP: 1. you need to ask "uncle john" 2. because you seem to react negetevly to all of the advise that is offered. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 12:50 PM Flag
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i didn't even realize i was doing that...but the responses have helped me put it in perspective. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 12:53 PM Flag
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Good luck...I know that it's frustrating when you don't know what's going on...God speed. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 12:56 PM Flag
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LOL! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 12:46 PM Flag
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who else is he with? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 12:41 PM Flag
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Just my family/the day care/close family friends that is it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 12:41 PM Flag
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Alone? Sounds like a lot of people. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 03:50 PM Flag
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geez...you're not helpful...it's a habit that needs to be broken. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 12:40 PM Flag
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np, two year olds so all sorts of things and then wake up one day and stop doing that and start doing something else. Come on, he's playing with a zipper and snuggling up to mom. Her crotch is at a perfect level. It means nothing more. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 12:48 PM Flag
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I suggeset that you read what I was replying to. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 12:51 PM Flag
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what makes you think I didn't? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 12:54 PM Flag
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Maybe he justs wants back in. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 06:14 PM Flag
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I would emphasize as clearly as possible to stop doing that. As well, ask him questions, occasionally and when he's receptive. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 07:01 PM Flag
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