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07.16.08, 11:39 AM General Topics
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I so want to have an affair. I've been married for 10 years and it just isn't the same. My DH is really getting on my nerves. I met someone from elementary school and he is HOT. I am soooo attracted to him. One time wont hurt, will it? Or does this mean I should be thinking about leaving DH? [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 07.16.08, 11:39 AM Flag
 

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Oh please. You sound like you are still in elementary school. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.16.08, 11:40 AM Flag
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yes, one time will hurt, because likely it won't just stay one time, and infidelity is still infidelity, even if it is just once. Have you spoken with your dh about your feelings? That is the place to start. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.16.08, 11:40 AM Flag
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You know what, I appreciate your view but there is more than one way to have a marriage. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.16.08, 12:07 PM Flag
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ITTA. I've been seeing other men on the side for years. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 06:57 AM Flag
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and your marriage is BETTER for it? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 07:13 AM Flag
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no, you shoudl be thinking about what's up with your marraige.maybe it needs someowrk, maybe yor expectations are unreasonable. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.16.08, 11:41 AM Flag
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people really don't take the "for better or for worse" to heart, do they [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.16.08, 11:43 AM Flag
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I assume you have dcs. Maybe you should look to improve your relationship before destroying it. Think twice g.l. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.16.08, 11:41 AM Flag
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How would you feel if you husband posted this? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.16.08, 11:42 AM Flag
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YES ONE TIME WILL HURT. and you should not be thinking about leaving DH, at least not because you are hot for someone else. jesus. 10 years with one person, of course he'll get on your nerves and it won't be 'the same'. go have drinks with a friend, or read a book, or see a movie. just step away a little and you'll likely see that you do not want to f up what you have. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.16.08, 11:42 AM Flag
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One man cannot do right in one department of life while he is occupied in doing wrong in any other department. Life is one indivisible whole (Gandhi). IE- you can't compartmentalize an affair- it will affect you, your marriage, your kids [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.16.08, 11:43 AM Flag
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which is a great thought but not a great example. gandhi was no gandhi in his sexual life. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.16.08, 11:48 AM Flag
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Hey! You're right. That just made me laugh. Still- I think that if you want to start out with someone, you need to do it clean. So if OP wants to be with another man, she should end her marriage first. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.16.08, 11:49 AM Flag
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i don't disagree! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.16.08, 11:50 AM Flag
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Ever hear of statutory rape? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.16.08, 11:43 AM Flag
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lol [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.16.08, 11:45 AM Flag
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if your dh says its ok, its ok. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.16.08, 11:44 AM Flag
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I totally understand. You shouldn't but at times I feel that way as well. get attracted to other guys and especially when my dh is being an a-hole. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.17.08, 06:48 AM Flag
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