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07.16.08, 07:00 AM General Topics
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My dh and I have had issues in the past about him not answering my calls when he is out (with friends). He will say he will be home at 10, for example, and if I call at 11 when he's still not home, he won't answer. Last night, we were meeting at the movies. We were supposed to meet at 6:50. I waited, he didn't come. I called. No answer. At 7:05, I went in to the theater and left a message telling him so. At 7:45 (almost an hour after he was supposed to meet me) he comes in. After the m ovie, I asked him what happened...why he didn't take my calls. He said he was in a taxi at 6:45 and just couldn't answer. I'm so pissed. I don't beleive him. He is making me feel crazy, telling me I'm out of control. If this wasn't the first time I could see that. But this type of thing is an issue for us. We aren't speaking right now. I'm so mad at him I don't know what to do. [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 07.16.08, 07:00 AM Flag

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Okay, this is weird. He's either doing drugs or having an affair [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.16.08, 07:04 AM Flag

op: thank you. It's so weird. I don't know how to handle it. what should I do? [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.16.08, 07:05 AM Flag

I would have him followed, if you really want to find out. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.16.08, 07:06 AM Flag

jeez...never thought of that. how do you do that? [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.16.08, 07:07 AM Flag

ita [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.16.08, 07:15 AM Flag

np; ita. This kind of behavior would leave a bad taste in my mouth [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.16.08, 07:24 AM Flag

this man is up to something. This is not normal behavior. He either has some really horrible bad attitude and entitled issues or he's doing something he's not supposed too and trying to spin things so you look bad. DON'T LET HIM GET AWAY WITH THAT [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.16.08, 07:24 AM Flag

op: I agree, but how doi I do that? We can't talk about it. He is as mad at me as I am at him. We tried to talk about it last night after the movie and then he started yelling at me on the street and walked home a different way. I don't know what to do! [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.16.08, 07:25 AM Flag

np: has he always been like this? Honestly, he sounds like a jerk. What line of work is he in. I do know that there are times I can't get through to DH but then he's in the middle of some client thing. This all sounds suspect. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.16.08, 07:26 AM Flag

he knows he's wrong and this is why all of the drama on the street. I would have his ass followed and see what he's doing..then he can't deny anything [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.16.08, 07:28 AM Flag

you mean hire a pi? [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.16.08, 07:29 AM Flag

there are companies that do this kind of work (following a spouse) and yes I guess they are considered PI's. If not then get some Junio snoop to do some following for you. If I wasn't pg I would help you [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.16.08, 07:35 AM Flag

lol! thanks. I don't know shy, but I feel terrible doing this. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.16.08, 07:36 AM Flag

^^why [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.16.08, 07:38 AM Flag

don't feel bad. Follow your gut. When I was 18yr old (I'm 40 now) and I had a gut feeling my dad was cheating on my mom. I followed him for a few days and caught him. I confronted him and he was SHOCKED but come on..Manhattan isn't that big. PPL get caught esp. when you are so open about things [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.16.08, 07:41 AM Flag

np absolutely [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.16.08, 07:38 AM Flag

http://cheatingspouseprivateinvestigator.com/overview.htm [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.16.08, 07:38 AM Flag

op again: I'm thinking of sending him an email tellin ghim how I feel (since talking about it seems futile). Should I? Or should I let him come to me? [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.16.08, 07:41 AM Flag

if you think that an email or letter is the only way he will stay shut and listen, do it but don't expect him to respond. If he's doing something wrong, he will NOT own up to it but just keep placing the blame on you [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.16.08, 07:43 AM Flag

What does your gut say? Do you think he's cheating? My ex started behaving like this when he was involved with someone else and wanted to get me to leave him (he was a coward). [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.16.08, 07:42 AM Flag

yes a coward. The whole act of an affair is something a coward does [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.16.08, 07:43 AM Flag

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General Topics 07.16.08, 08:00 AM Flag

Get phone records for his cell phone. Hit redial on your home phones and see what number it dials. [ Reply | More

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