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07.15.08, 15:03 PM General Topics
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Anyone been through a rough patch in their marriage and get through it? I'm having trouble. He had emotional affair, and although we're in couples counseling and things are better, I still think about what things would be like if we got a divorce. I don't know how to let go of the past. [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 07.15.08, 03:03 PM Flag
 

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yes - and I think it comes down to committing to yourself that if you choose to move forward together, you find a "matra" to help stop holding onto the anger. My friend recently told me that resentment is anger with mold on it!! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.15.08, 03:30 PM Flag
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^^^mantra [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.15.08, 03:31 PM Flag
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My parents have been married over thirty years, but when I was young they went through a rough patch (we were pain in the ass kids). My mom was leaving on a business trip and the night before my dad asked if they could date other people, she looked at him and said he could, but that she would leave. She came back a few days later and they started working it out. My dad says that to this day he thanks god he turned down that offer. PS they did not tell me this when I was a child, only as an adult in a serious relationship when I asked about tough times. People can work through them, no relationship is perfect, but both people need to be dedicated to making the relationship work. good luck OP. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.15.08, 07:13 PM Flag
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My dh & I had a very tough year (9/11, my mother died, had 2 m/cs, my dd almost died) and we almost didn't make it because instead of supported me he attacked me for not paying enough attention to him. I never thought I would really get over it but I go pg & 5 yr later here I am very glad I did. He is not perfect & neither am I but if we could make it through that I truly believe we passed thru a crucible that made us trust & believe that we could make it through anything. However at a certain point you do have to let it go, even though you are perfectly justified & right to be angry, you have to let it go in order to live life. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.15.08, 07:19 PM Flag
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