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07.14.08, 16:36 PM New York City
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You will flame I bet but I don't think it is fair that I attend shower for baby #2. Same sex, only a year apart, she has everything she needs and I savor my weekends. Don't you think baby #2 and 3 and subsequent should not have showers thrown for mom? [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
New York City 07.14.08, 04:36 PM Flag
 

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you seem to want to be flamed [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.14.08, 04:38 PM Flag
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???? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.14.08, 04:39 PM Flag
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imho, it is rather tacky to have showers for subsequent children - unless there has been a long time between them or some other extenuating circumstance exists. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.14.08, 04:41 PM Flag
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You go girl! Stick to your guns. Time is precious, people are greedy. (I'm anti-shower, can you tell? Flame away). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.14.08, 04:43 PM Flag
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:-) you I like. I am anti shower too. Did not want one for db #1 and would never have had one for db#2. This country has become shower crazy! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.14.08, 04:47 PM Flag
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thank you for saying that. not only is the country shower happy but gift happy as well. I begged my friends not to throw me wedding or a baby shower. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.14.08, 04:51 PM Flag
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so say no...it's an invitation not a command. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.14.08, 04:48 PM Flag
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i agree with you; however, i was really depressed during my second pregnancy (3 years later and opposite gender) and i wanted a shower for me, not so much for baby crap. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.14.08, 04:56 PM Flag
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totally tacky to have a shower for number 2 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.14.08, 06:32 PM Flag
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it depends. for me, the baby shower wasnt' about gifts. it was about gettin gtogether with friends for a party. i threw my own. and didnt' ask for gifts. had a great time hanging out with people i knew from all stages and areas of my life. was cool to see them all meet. was nice to see them all one last time bf my life changed entirley when dd arrived. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.14.08, 06:39 PM Flag
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this is totally tacky [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.14.08, 06:43 PM Flag
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why???? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.14.08, 06:44 PM Flag
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whether you cared about gifts or not, throwing a baby shoer for oneself is gauche. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.14.08, 06:46 PM Flag
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i agree with you. dh and i just find it another reason to throw a party. don't care about the gifts at all. it's more about the company and a reason to call out friends you haven't seen in a while. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.14.08, 06:49 PM Flag
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