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07.14.08, 12:31 PM General Topics
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Does anyone ever feel guilty for the judgements you gave out pre-motherhood? Now that you know what it's like I feel like I should write a note to every mother I look down at and said I'll never be like that. My ds has totally humbled me. [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 07.14.08, 12:31 PM Flag
 

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YES! I actually called a good friend and apologized to her for not helping her more and sympathizing with her when she had her db (when I was still child-less) At the time, I resented her for disappearing. Now i know better. I am just waiting for another friend to have a baby so i can lavish food, love, and babysitting on them. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.14.08, 12:35 PM Flag
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children are the great equalizer [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.14.08, 12:37 PM Flag
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I said my dcs would NEVER watch TV ds just watch 3 hrs of thomas videos while I finished reading a book. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.14.08, 12:38 PM Flag
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no- I wasn't too bad. I mean, perhaps I didn't quite have the sympathy as I do know for a mom with a kid having a meltdown, but I never shot moms looks or made comments [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.14.08, 12:39 PM Flag
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I was never openly judgemental but inside I blamed the mom [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.14.08, 12:40 PM Flag
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yeah, people do- you kind of have to have a kid to know. It's just good advice all around- unless you've walked in someone's shoes, you shouldn't judge. You shouldn't judge even then- we should be so much easier on each other. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.14.08, 01:10 PM Flag
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I still blame myself so I guess you always blame the mom [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.14.08, 06:10 PM Flag
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it's been such a lesson to me about so many things you cannot understand in life until you've experienced it. I feel worst of all about how I pulled away from people when they had kids. I assumed that they did not want to hang out with the childless. Now I so appreciate it when a friend reaches out and hangs out w/ me and db. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.14.08, 12:41 PM Flag
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No, I was right about a lot [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.14.08, 12:52 PM Flag
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i like you [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.14.08, 01:06 PM Flag
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like what? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.14.08, 01:11 PM Flag
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i don't remember my pre-motherhood judgments. too fucking tired. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.14.08, 06:13 PM Flag
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No guilt here. Every judgement has come back and bit me in the ass. Still doing penance. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.14.08, 06:19 PM Flag
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