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07.13.08, 15:43 PM New York City
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bf of 6 mo and i are pretty serious. however, he NEVER invites me to his events, yet comes to all mine. its gotten to the point where i am no longer happy about it. i have talked to him about it on several occassions and he doesn't think he does it (leaves me out) but he does. what is the best way to handle this? i am at a loss at this point. [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
New York City 07.13.08, 03:43 PM Flag
 

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doesn't sound like he's that into you. If he was, he would want you around for more things. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.13.08, 03:45 PM Flag
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but he goes to great lengths to be with me constantly. plans constant special things, calls me all day i rarely call him. but otherwise i agree with you [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.13.08, 03:46 PM Flag
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Are you sure that he actually has that much non-guy stuff going on that he could invite you to? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.13.08, 03:47 PM Flag
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not sure. its not a ton of stuff. but in general we are hanging with my friends/family. and if he gets an invite to something i feel like he doesn't include me [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.13.08, 03:48 PM Flag
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have you met his friends and family? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.13.08, 03:51 PM Flag
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i have met his friends, not family. his parents died, no brothers or sisters. but he spends a lot of time with my family. he doesn't really socialize with his friends the way i do. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.13.08, 03:53 PM Flag
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so what type of things is he not inviting you to? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.13.08, 03:56 PM Flag
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best friends fathers bday party, charity events. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.13.08, 03:57 PM Flag
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he should be inviting you to these things, but I'm not entirely sure if he's not just because "he's not that into you", if I was to guess, it may be more because he's slightly socially awkward. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.13.08, 04:05 PM Flag
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So leave the poor guys alone. Are you looking for trouble? Sounds like it [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.13.08, 04:09 PM Flag
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Do you know about them in advance? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.13.08, 03:45 PM Flag
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yes [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.13.08, 03:48 PM Flag
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do you know that he goes to things without you? is he boring with no friends? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.13.08, 03:45 PM Flag
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he is boring with no friends. in general i am the one with the friends. but if he is invited to some type of party or event he doesn't bring me and says he doesn't want to even go (i believe him) so why would i. but if he gets tix to a concert or something like that he always takes me [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.13.08, 03:47 PM Flag
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are you sure he isn't married? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.13.08, 03:53 PM Flag
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lol. yes, definately. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.13.08, 03:54 PM Flag
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don't laugh. it happens [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.13.08, 04:04 PM Flag
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i hate to say this, but is it possible that he's just not that into you? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.13.08, 05:25 PM Flag
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oh my god. the guy sounds very nice--comes to your family/friend events, brings you to concerts etc with him. his own parents are dead and he's an only child. and you'll give him grief for going to his best friend's father's birthday party w/o you?! come on! you are looking for something not to like, but haven't a leg to stand on here. you are creating a problem where it isn't one. fair warning. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.13.08, 05:27 PM Flag
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do you think he's embarrassed to be seen with you? are you attractive? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.13.08, 05:27 PM Flag
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