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07.13.08, 09:27 AM General Topics
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Who typically should throw a bride a bridal shower? I am the maid of honor in my sis-in-laws wedding and I was told it was me and it's just assumed I am doing it. Also she wants it at a specific place and I just realized that means I am going to have to pay and I don't want to. I don't even like her, she doesn't even love the guy is marrying and has cheated on him. Ugh, I read it's really the bridesmaids that should do it, not me necessarily. [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 07.13.08, 09:27 AM Flag
 

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tell her that the place she has in mind is out of your price range - that you don't mind if someone else hosts it instead of you - or you would be happy to host a shower at your home [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.13.08, 09:29 AM Flag
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Yeah, I just realized all of this and I am supposed to go over to her place today to plan with her mom and herself. This sucks, I don't want to have anything to do with this stupid wedding. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.13.08, 09:30 AM Flag
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is it your brother getting married [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.13.08, 09:32 AM Flag
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Then why did you agree to be the maid of honor? You should have politely declined. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.13.08, 09:56 AM Flag
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in my circle the bride's mother's close friends host the showers. they have the means to do so more than young friends of the bride [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.13.08, 09:30 AM Flag
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You just just tell her you can't be MOH. Problem solved. Tell her you just don't have the time needed to put in the effort to make her day really special and you feel she deserves that. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.13.08, 09:29 AM Flag
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which is true b/c a week after her wedding I am moving to Japan. DH is in the AF and he wedding is keeping us apart even longer than we should be [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.13.08, 09:31 AM Flag
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Then do it - it's not really fair to either of you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.13.08, 09:32 AM Flag
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why did she pick you in ther first place [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.13.08, 09:33 AM Flag
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you are the maid of honor and you and the other bridesmaids throw the shower. they should chip in. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.13.08, 09:56 AM Flag
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