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07.11.08, 19:51 PM NY Schools
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I just hate all these FA posts. Find it so disturbing how people talk about how to increase the award (buy a home with that million you just inherited, have more kids, say you care for your elderly in laws, have another baby, emphasize that your kids are adopted from africa, and on and on. no different then conspiring to maximize your welfare payment. gee...have another kid! [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
NY Schools 07.11.08, 07:51 PM Flag
 

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People may spout stiff on UB, but the families I see who may be receiving aid at schools are real people with great kids: single mom from the Bronx, blue-collar worker from Brooklyn, teachers . . . [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.11.08, 08:11 PM Flag
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so there are 2 like that in your school. the rest are MC, entitled spoiled kids who have failed to grow up and take responsibility for their own kids. repugnant, really. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.11.08, 08:39 PM Flag
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No--a lot more than that. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.11.08, 09:10 PM Flag
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must be a lower tier school. maybe one of the downtown lightweights [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.11.08, 09:16 PM Flag
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How exactly would you know who they are? Are you on the FA committee or do you walk up to people and ask them if the school is giving them FA? You are just making assumptions based on your own skewed stereotyping. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.11.08, 10:43 PM Flag
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you are really ignorant, aren't you? wow. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.11.08, 08:13 PM Flag
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no. just calling it as I and anyone with a brain see it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.11.08, 08:39 PM Flag
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I take everything I read on UB with a grain of salt. FWIW, we receive aid with one dc, our incomes have recently gone up, so we will receive less next year. I would like to have another dc, but am afraid that we will no longer be able to afford dc's school if we do. I don't really know how the FA office looks at that. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.12.08, 04:56 AM Flag
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well, at least you are considering taking responsibility for your choices. still seems you are looking to have someone else fund them though [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.12.08, 05:06 AM Flag
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Ok, so you are against financial aid? It is disturbing that you equate it with welfare. Do you believe that only families who can afford 30K per child per year should be allowed to go to private schools in NYC? Do you understand what those schools would look like, how they would suffer being that homogenous? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.12.08, 05:56 AM Flag
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np: i, personally, would prefer that families that earn significantly less than $250k get FA at private schools. odds are, those families already have decent zoned public schools. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.12.08, 06:06 AM Flag
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Not at all. Plus many schools give close to full rides to people with lower incomes, but still want to hit that 150k to 250ishk to avoid having a barbell - uber wealthy & working class [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.12.08, 07:01 AM Flag
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lol! yes, all the wealthy kids would suffer greatly not to have a few white professors' kids, or priveleged but underperfoming parents' kids at the school. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.12.08, 06:58 AM Flag
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oh, I get it. You have no idea what the value is of diversity, of knowing people who are very different from you, from understanding people from other racial, ethnic, and socioeconomic groups. I feel really sorry for you and even more your kids. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.12.08, 07:48 AM Flag
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oh, I get it. You are whiny and annoying and are pleading a case that is absolutely absurd as it is carried out at NYC privates. please find something new to believe in. santa? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.12.08, 07:53 AM Flag
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you aren't making any sense. did you go to a nyc private? if so, we can just stick with our public school. thanks. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.12.08, 07:59 AM Flag
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dc currently in private school. we work very hard to afford it, and i think those who cannot or will not do so, should go public. no trauma in that. do only what you can actually afford, otherwise you are not entitled to it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.12.08, 08:04 AM Flag
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It´s not for you to say who´s entitled to a private education. It´s up to the schools. Evidently they disagree with you. Tough luck. Leave your school if you don´t like it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.12.08, 02:09 PM Flag
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