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07.11.08, 14:23 PM General Topics
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So annoyed. Confided in my friend about something. Told her not to tell anyone. She told her DH - which might be fine for some couples but she KNOWS her DH has a big mouth. He has a history of saying the wrong thing at the wrong time. He told other people. And when I said something to her about him spilling the beans she got all defensive with me. Saying that she doesn't keep secrets from her DH. Guess I learned my lesson but it's a shame that I can't ever confide in her again. [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 07.11.08, 02:23 PM Flag
 

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I agree with her. Never expect someone not to tell dh, especially if you didn't say not to tell. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.11.08, 02:27 PM Flag
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Well, considering she bitches to me all the time about what a big mouth her dh has, I guess I thought if I told her something went no further than the two of us, she wouldn't tell her dh. It's not like she doesn't know he has a big mouth. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.11.08, 02:28 PM Flag
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good point, but she obviously hasn't learned her lesson if she still has reasons to bitch about this. I'm sorry that she's not a great friend though. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.11.08, 02:31 PM Flag
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General Topics 07.11.08, 02:37 PM Flag
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what was the nature of the information? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.11.08, 03:01 PM Flag
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medical. nothing too serious but on the embarrassing side. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.11.08, 03:13 PM Flag
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OP: here's the thing. unless you are concerned for someone or needing to vent about something, i don't think you need to tell your dh everything. basically, my friend gossiped to her dh about a medical thing in my past coming back to haunt me. telling him did nothing but spread gossip which he spread to others. i don't tell my dh anything he doesn't HAVE to know if someone asks me to keep it confidential. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.11.08, 03:15 PM Flag
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