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07.10.08, 09:24 AM General Topics
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vent: just burried our grandmother and my mother's youngest sibling was a total bitch to everyone during the wake and funeral. She mooched off of my grandmother for over 15 yrs living rent free with her dh and kids in my grandmother's home. Then when they had to start paying rent they blamed the other sibs for turning them into the mgmt office of my grandmother's apt building. The promised to take her Soc. Sec. money and put it away for her needs and burial acct. Yrs passed (they dumped grandma in a nursing home and took the apt) and bought the burial plot but put it under their name. She died, they took charge of the arrangements (they had my grandmother's money) sat their friends in the front of the casket during viewing, took all of the cards the funeral home made for my granmother and gave them to just the ppl they wanted to. None of the other 5 sibs got any. The limo that usually the family rides in was filled with their friends (who none knew my grandmother) just to keep the sibs out), they were saying nasty remarks during the mass, ect. I'm so happy I never have to lay eyes on them again. They are mean, ignorant, immature and I'm sure their 2 kids will treat them as badly as they did to my grandmother when she needed help. Just venting. [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 07.10.08, 09:24 AM Flag
 

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took all of the cards the funeral home made for my granmother and gave them to just the ppl they wanted to. None of the other 5 sibs got any. The limo that usually the family rides in was filled with their friends (who none knew my grandmother) just to keep the sibs out), they were saying nasty remarks during the mass, ect. I'm so happy I never have to lay eyes on them again. They are mean, ignorant, immature and I'm sure their 2 kids will treat them as badly as they did to my grandmother when she needed help. Just venting. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:24 AM Flag
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^^^they also said that the headstone we order will be turned away since they own the plot. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:25 AM Flag
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I think you've posted a couple of times about this situation, I am sorry - but it is over. Let it be over inside you. You have given them enough of you - take yourself back, and never forget - living well is the BEST revenge. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:28 AM Flag
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op: thanks but this is the first time I posted about this situation since I just got back from the funeral a few min. ago and need to vent on what happened this morning [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:30 AM Flag
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I'm sorry. I thought you were the lady whose aunt threw away the suit you wanted grandmother to be buried in and had to go out shopping to find something else. There must be two of you going thru similiar bad times. Again, sorry. I hope you feel better soon [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:37 AM Flag
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op: thx. It's sad to hear that my family isn't the only one going through drama at a time like this. Just glad it's over for my mother's sake [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:52 AM Flag
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me too. So sorry for your loss. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.10.08, 09:54 AM Flag
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