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07.09.08, 19:53 PM General Topics
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I'm 40 and fat. Weight used to matter so much to me and I would be ok going hungry to loose weight. Now I can't seem to focus on staying fit - can't even stand to look at myself in the mirror [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 07.09.08, 07:53 PM Flag
 

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i am you, but 10 years older. i cannot get the focus or motivation to stick with a plan and do it, the way i used to be able to. so disgusted. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.09.08, 07:56 PM Flag
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Ugh - just which I could get out of this rut [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.09.08, 08:00 PM Flag
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yup. there has to be a big hormonal component to the complacency thing... just cannot muster the strength to battle this weight. ugh. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.09.08, 08:01 PM Flag
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same here. 44 and at least 30 lbs overweight, but am totally unmotivated to lose it. I would love to be thin again, but it seems like much more effort at this age, plus I don't have the freetime I did pre-kids. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.09.08, 07:58 PM Flag
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OP - ditto on the number of lbs. I don't have the time I used to and don't have the same motivation to stay away from fattening food like I used to. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.09.08, 08:01 PM Flag
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np: what is your current height and weight? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.09.08, 08:03 PM Flag
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5' 5", 165 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.09.08, 08:04 PM Flag
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i am 5' 8", 180 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.09.08, 08:05 PM Flag
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or: about the same here. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.09.08, 08:24 PM Flag
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I wouldn't consider this fat at all. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.09.08, 08:14 PM Flag
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it's heavy [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.09.08, 08:24 PM Flag
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Not fat. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.09.08, 08:15 PM Flag
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This is not considered fat. You need a reality check my friend. And give yourself a break. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.09.08, 08:15 PM Flag
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But I used to be able to keep my weight under 130. I'm in a size 10 - used to be size 6 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.09.08, 08:18 PM Flag
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What size do you wear? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.09.08, 08:16 PM Flag
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Most brands - size 10. But I've even had to go to a 12. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.09.08, 08:20 PM Flag
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Dude. Relax. You are NOT fat. Who are you comparing yourself to to make you think you are fat? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.09.08, 08:25 PM Flag
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I am comparing myself to myself at a younger age - its hard to not be a size 6 anymore -- I wouldn't mind being a size 8 again [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.09.08, 08:32 PM Flag
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You should *try* to change your attitude about it. Be grateful for your body and focus on developing a healthy lifestyle. You will lose weight, but it will be a bonus to feeling better. gl! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.09.08, 08:23 PM Flag
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