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07.09.08, 16:55 PM General Topics
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My husband left me over 2 years ago. He said he was never attracted to me. Have been dating a great guy for 8 months. I drive him nuts sometimes with my insecurities. How do I stop? [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 07.09.08, 04:55 PM Flag
 

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Stop. And get a therapist who you can bitch to endlessly. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.09.08, 05:01 PM Flag
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you need to get into therapy to deal with this. If you don't learn to love yourself you will ruin a good thing [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.09.08, 05:01 PM Flag
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OR: lets not set the bar too high - she has to refrain from bitching to her boyfriend but she can still be insecure. I'm a big believer in fake it till you make it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.09.08, 05:03 PM Flag
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OP - I am not so much bitching. This morning I was like we haven't been having sex as often. Are you still attracted to me? He said of course, you had your period and my back was out. I hate being needy! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.09.08, 05:07 PM Flag
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OP that IS bitching to a guy! Men want to see confidence and a little bit of aggression (when it comes to sex). NEVER let them see you sweat. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.09.08, 05:23 PM Flag
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every time you have a negative thought about yourself, tell yourself 3 things you like about yourself. Then forget that poor idiot who gave your wonderful self up and be happy with the guy who actually loves and deserves you. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.09.08, 05:02 PM Flag
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that's a tough call. fake it till you make it is a good suggestion but i also really believe in therapy to find the source of your insecurities so that you can finally put them to rest. i often feel insecure about totally stupid things and some really important stuff. for me therapy is a very smart way of dealing with it all. GL and stay strong. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.09.08, 05:18 PM Flag
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