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07.08.08, 20:51 PM General Topics
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Has anyone ever lived with/been married to a man with a very bad wandering eye? What did you do? Did it drive you crazy? [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 07.08.08, 08:51 PM Flag
 

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it used to make me crazy, then i ignored it and he stopped. he did it bc he knew it upset me. i will say however, there are men who look and are rude...what is your situation? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.08.08, 08:54 PM Flag
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We have been married 2 years. DH gives every attractive woman under the age of 35 this intense "look" (I want to fuck you eye contact) right in front of me. It makes me jumpy and insecure and has been, at base, the cause of our problems. I feel like he is not totally committed. Most of the time, it doesn't bother me because I think that he just needs the ego boost of someone flirting back. But sometimes, it makes me crazy. I feel like he is shopping around for a replacement. I am 38, he is 48 and we have a 6 month old. I am about 30 lbs overweight but he started doing it before I got pregnant, too. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.08.08, 08:57 PM Flag
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if it makes you feel better, my dh is 20 years older and did this quite a bit when i was pg. i really think he's insecure and since he's a new dad, he may be testing the waters. whatever you do, don't let him know that it bothers you. instead, lose your extra weight, take care and focus on yourself and any woman that sees him doing this in front of you will think he's a jerk! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.08.08, 09:02 PM Flag
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jeez... you make it sound like her fault. Op, you shouldn't have to loose 30 Ibs of weight that you gained carrying his baby just to get him to stop staring at other women [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.08.08, 09:08 PM Flag
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i was just responding to her comment. i believe that when people feel good about themselves, these things don't bother them so bad [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.08.08, 09:12 PM Flag
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I think that I would be bugged by what op said regardless of my weight. He's acting like a complete jerk in front of her, so imagine what he's like when she's not around. It is hard to just not let something like that bother you. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.08.08, 09:14 PM Flag
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midlife crisis [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.08.08, 09:06 PM Flag
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that look sounds creepy, and he's being an ass. is this his frist child? I think some men get freaked out by the responsibility and need to act like they are 20 to prove they are still hot stuff. Please remember that his behavior isn't about you, it's his own need for attention. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.09.08, 05:56 AM Flag
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no but my husband has a wonky eye. sometimes it is lazy, other times it kind of jerks about so other women sometimes think he is checking them out but he is really loyal to me. who else would put up with the halitosis, stubby penis AND wonky eye? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.08.08, 08:55 PM Flag
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many women, especially if he has $$$ [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.08.08, 08:56 PM Flag
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Does he know he's obvious? I had an exbf that did this, and I mentioned it afterwards b/c we remained friends. He was honestly shocked that I noticed so much. Now he's engaged to a very lovely woman, and I can tell that he has completely stopped. Some guys just think that they are more clever/slick than they really are. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.08.08, 09:06 PM Flag
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My DH loves to check out well endowed women - it used to bother me when we were dating, but now I just laugh at him! If it really bothers you, I think you sould tell him how much it irritates you - or just start doing it to him. Check out ever man and compliment on his sexy bod! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.09.08, 06:00 AM Flag
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no, because I'm not stupid. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.09.08, 06:01 AM Flag
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