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07.08.08, 18:47 PM General Topics
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Told DH that if only wants a relationship with dcs and not me then he should leave. Now I am afraid he will really leave.. but really don't want him too. Not sure what to do now.. [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 07.08.08, 06:47 PM Flag

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so you do want him to stay even if he ignores you and your needs? [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.08.08, 06:49 PM Flag

maybe it would be better than being a single mom [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.08.08, 06:51 PM Flag

give him a BJ tonight...he won't leave! [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.08.08, 06:49 PM Flag

we haven't slept in the same room in months [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.08.08, 06:51 PM Flag

then you both need some sex, try it and see if it helps... [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.08.08, 06:52 PM Flag

what if I approach him and he rejects me [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.08.08, 06:53 PM Flag

he is a man I am almost positive he will NOT reject you but you can't ask, just reach over and kiss his neck or grab his unit...if he does reject you then you know it's not you and it's over...BTW speaking from experience some how sex always brings us back together it's important in a relationship..so my old marriage counselor says and I agree [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.08.08, 06:55 PM Flag

I know no sex - not even touching is part of the problem. I guess if I try and he rejects me - I'll know the answer. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.08.08, 06:59 PM Flag

goodluck...fingers crossed for you! [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.08.08, 07:00 PM Flag

would you still try if you weren't sure if he was cheating? [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.08.08, 07:02 PM Flag

yeah...but how sure are you, I feel like I would know if my hubby was cheating. If he rejects than I would really suspect something and the damage might already be done but maybe since it's been a while for you both maybe you are both shy or scared to initiate? [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.08.08, 07:04 PM Flag

I'm not 100% sure but have suspicions - he stays out for hours at night all the time and has had several weekend trips this year. Wouldn't say where or who he went with, [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.08.08, 07:09 PM Flag

hmmm I just asked my hubby about this and he said that he may not be having an affair but needs his time away...but doens't want to tell you what he does..Either way he needs to tell you, not cool but still try sex and if it doesn't work you can hate me instead..okay? [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.08.08, 07:10 PM Flag

thanks so much... this is so helpful. I think I can give it a try -- but I feel like crying my eyes out [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.08.08, 07:14 PM Flag

I am going to bed but was waiting to hear back from you...relationships are hard but you can feel good knowing that YOU are giving it a try then you did all that you can do...have fun and knock his socks off! [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.08.08, 07:15 PM Flag

^^ will post tomorrow and let you know how it it went [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.08.08, 07:16 PM Flag

I get on after kids are in bed around 8ish-kinda still learning the ropes on UB so I will look for a post [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.08.08, 07:17 PM Flag

ok - will start my post with Last night I attempted to have sex with DH to make up and..... [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.08.08, 07:20 PM Flag

okay..I gotta go to bed so tired! Goodluck [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.08.08, 07:21 PM Flag

maybe tell him you were wrong [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.08.08, 06:50 PM Flag