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07.08.08, 12:13 PM General Topics
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feeling sad today. I had felt kind of shunned by IL's for a long time. BIL told me recently that they are holding somethings from my past against me. At least I know I'm not crazy for feeling that way now, but it's making me sad. [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 07.08.08, 12:13 PM Flag
 

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I don't think you should spend a moment of your life feeling sad about what your in-laws think of you. It will just make you crazy. Be ok with yourself. Smile and nod when you're with them. And next time your b-i-l wants to share what the family thinks of you, walk away! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.08.08, 12:18 PM Flag
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LOL! good advice. Actually though, it made me feel better to know that I wasn't just making up feeling shunned. Turns out everyone knew all this stuff about me and I didn't know they knew. I will get over it but it makes me feel weird about it all. I have kind of a sordid past because of some abuse stuff from my teens. I feel like I've worked through it all pretty well and proved myself to them (we've been married 7 years) I don't know why it's still an issue. Oh well. You are right. thanks [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.08.08, 12:21 PM Flag
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np: your ILs sound like self righteous jerks. i'm so sorry. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.08.08, 12:30 PM Flag
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thanks. I think that is what is surprising me about it. They don't come across that way. DH said one sister is just bored and the other not too bright! Makes me feel a little better to look at it that way. I think MIL has moved on with things, she treats me pretty well. And apparently FIL is not in the loop. They put the fun back in dysfunctional don't they? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.08.08, 12:31 PM Flag
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