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07.07.08, 13:07 PM TTC
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Please no flames. Ten years ago Dh and I were in serious drug therapy. He for cocaine and me for alcohol and cocaine. We stopped for three years before trying for first DC. Now we want a second but DH relapsed two weeks before we conceived. I am 8 weeks pg and am worried about the effects of the drugs in DHs system the night we conceived. He is totally clean but I am SO SO worried about DB. Anyone have any insight into this, experience or medical knowledge? [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
TTC 07.07.08, 01:07 PM Flag
 

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good grief what did he relapse on alcohol or drugs? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.07.08, 01:08 PM Flag
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drugs. cocaine and marijuana [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.07.08, 01:09 PM Flag
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i wouldn't worry about it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.07.08, 01:10 PM Flag
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goodness, you have been through a lot. Everything should be fine with db though, don't worry too much, just hope your dh stays clean. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.07.08, 01:10 PM Flag
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TY that is very kind of you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.07.08, 01:10 PM Flag
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Good luck to you all, and I really hope that you and your dcs will help remind your dh to stay clean for your sakes! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.07.08, 01:12 PM Flag
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Again you are great thanks! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.07.08, 01:26 PM Flag
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Yw. good luck and don't worry, you'll have a beautiful healthy baby! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.07.08, 01:27 PM Flag
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My father was an alchoholic coke addict. I am fine, I typed this with my flippers! j/k [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.07.08, 01:11 PM Flag
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That was funny, thank you! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.07.08, 01:11 PM Flag
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I am serious about being fine though... My dad didn't get clean until three years ago, and I have never met him. So, good for you and your husband! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.07.08, 01:12 PM Flag
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You don't belong on UB you are way way too nice. Thank you very much and gl to you! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.07.08, 01:19 PM Flag
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Baby will be fine. Just make sure you take care of yourself, I'm sure you're so stressed out about the relapse. GL. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.07.08, 01:12 PM Flag
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General Topics 07.07.08, 01:21 PM Flag
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It's so very unlikely for anything a DH does to affect his sperm (all the burden is on us moms :) ). [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.07.08, 01:22 PM Flag
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God I could HUG you how did I get so lucky on UB to find such caring women, thank you for your support [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.07.08, 01:23 PM Flag
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you'll be OK and DB will be OK as long as you stay clean ! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.07.08, 01:12 PM Flag
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Oh I will! I have been for ten yrs TY! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.07.08, 01:24 PM Flag
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You'll be great ! Don't worry. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.07.08, 01:25 PM Flag
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TY TY TY! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.07.08, 01:26 PM Flag
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We moms do all the hard work and obviously you are used to working hard for what you want to have. I hope all is smooth sailing ! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.07.08, 01:27 PM Flag
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Drugs (taken by men) really only hurt the chances of conception, they don't contribute to birth defects, ect. So if you conceived, your baby really should be fine. Congrats! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.07.08, 01:27 PM Flag
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