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07.07.08, 07:43 AM New York City
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Met bf's best friend this week. Bf's ex was really beautiful and his best friend thought so. any chance his best friend might say something to the effect that i am not pretty and he can do better? i know that sounds childish and ridiculous, but in the two times that he spoke to his best friend since, his best friend didn't even mention meeting me. not even "hey, she seems nice" nothing. meanwhile we have been together a while now and his friend knew everything about me. do men just not talk about these things? [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
New York City 07.07.08, 07:43 AM Flag
 

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yes, they talk to each other about it. not you. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.07.08, 07:44 AM Flag
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do you think the friend would be nice about it, or say i wasn't pretty? we seemed to hit it off but i am no where near as pretty as his ex [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.07.08, 07:47 AM Flag
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np: your insecurity is far more likely to become a turn-off than any perceived or actual difference in attractiveness. you need to let this go. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.07.08, 07:48 AM Flag
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i never talk about it with him, but he has told me in the past how his friend loved his ex and wanted someone just like her. was kind of surprised that his friend wouldn't even mention meeting me. fwiw, i was there both times they spoke. i am sure they will talk about it when i am not around, but its always nice to feel the best friend likes you [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.07.08, 07:51 AM Flag
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Why do you know that bf's bf thought she was beautiful? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.07.08, 07:52 AM Flag
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bf told me. he said his best friend "loved her" and wanted to find someone exactly like her [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.07.08, 07:54 AM Flag
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well then he should date her now that she's available. more important that your bf loves you. i get what you're feeling, but just try to push past it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.07.08, 08:00 AM Flag
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you need to get passed this. my exbf was very good looking and everyone thought so, but i was not into him. end of story. if he wanted to be with her he would be. looks are not everything. your bf likes you not her. forget what friends say to each other. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.07.08, 08:00 AM Flag
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i would usually think this but she left him :( [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.07.08, 08:01 AM Flag
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so what. who cares. you need to be secure in your relationship otherwise you will sabotage it.. agree with poster below. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.07.08, 08:07 AM Flag
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How old are you? Seriously, this sounds like an issue I had when I was 25. I look back at it now and can't believe I was so insecure/immature. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.07.08, 08:04 AM Flag
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My dh has 4 best friends and I have heard every thing they have had to say about any one any of them has dated over the past ten years. All of them are married now. None of them to the "hottest girl" and I think you are worrying over nothing. All they really care about is how you treat their friend. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.07.08, 08:10 AM Flag
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thank you [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.07.08, 08:18 AM Flag
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