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07.07.08, 07:28 AM General Topics
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I just don't want to have sex with my DH. I love him. He is my best friend. He is a wonderful father. I just don't feel sexual toward him. Anyone else ? [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 07.07.08, 07:28 AM Flag
 

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i really feel exactly like this. i know it's my "fault." sex always takes at least an hour and i would rather spend this time sleeping. awful, i know, but there it is. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.07.08, 07:31 AM Flag
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For us it's 10 minutes - give or take - and I think it's an exercise in frustration. Maybe it's that it emphasizes the only big negative. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.07.08, 07:32 AM Flag
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why are you not sexual toward him? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.07.08, 07:36 AM Flag
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I wish I knew. It saddens me. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.07.08, 07:38 AM Flag
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OP Part of me feels like he's my best friend and that's not sexy. Sexy is hot and new and exciting. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.07.08, 07:42 AM Flag
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i'm going thru the exact same thing. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.07.08, 07:54 AM Flag
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what do you do ? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.07.08, 08:00 AM Flag
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unfortunately, exactly what you do. i'm watching this post for advice now. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.07.08, 08:06 AM Flag
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Do you think our DH's feel this way too ? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.07.08, 08:07 AM Flag
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this is reflective of an intimacy issue, imho. if you push through it and get to the next level of intimacy, the sexual connection will resolve itself. true, it will be different from the "new and different" sexuality, but better. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.07.08, 07:51 AM Flag
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by push through do you mane just do it until it becomes the norm / desirable ? I'm not trying to be a smart-ass, but I feel that during sex I am not "there" and I don't even want to be there. I want to WANT to be there, but I'm not. I'm thinking about the schedule for the week, the guy I saw at the Whole Foods, these sheets should be pressed before I put them on the bed next time, etc. I have no WANT for the sex. Does that make sense ? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.07.08, 07:57 AM Flag
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you iron your sheets? that makes no sense to me. but the rest of it does, I feel the same way. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.07.08, 08:01 AM Flag
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NO, I don't. But I think that it'd be a nice thing... You see ? I think nonsense instead of "Wow, Daniel Craig my ass ! This man is my man !" [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.07.08, 08:03 AM Flag
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lol. I think ironed sheets would be nice too, if someone else did it. Meantime, I feel the way you do, and I just try to deal with it, b/c I know it'll keep the peace. I'm hoping things improve when I stop bfing. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.07.08, 08:05 AM Flag
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One of our issues is that I can't stand my DH near my breasts. My kids aren't BF anymore, but now seeing DH's face there is a HUGE turn-off ! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.07.08, 08:07 AM Flag
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