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07.06.08, 17:03 PM Newborn
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i cheated on my dh and it was with a woman i work with, i'm a wreck over this and i don't know how to tell him [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
Newborn 07.06.08, 05:03 PM Flag
 

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there's no good way to tell him. Of course you're a wreck over it, he may leave you because of it. Hopefully, the fact that it was with a woman will be in your favor [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.06.08, 05:05 PM Flag
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you don't. how selfish [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.06.08, 05:05 PM Flag
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selfish to tell the person you married that you messed up and let them decide what to do? God I hope DH never goes to you for advice. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.06.08, 05:07 PM Flag
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back at you [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.06.08, 05:08 PM Flag
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you would really rather not know? Wouldn't you be livid if you found out from a third party? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.06.08, 05:09 PM Flag
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op - that is exactly my concern, i am so fearful that he will find out [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.06.08, 05:10 PM Flag
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If he finds out from someone else, he will feel backed into a corner, and he will also be less likely to believe that you regret it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.06.08, 05:11 PM Flag
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but i dont want to lie to him either - i just cant win no matter what i do. i feel that it is selfish to keep something like that from him. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.06.08, 05:07 PM Flag
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yes, by all means share. Ruining his life so you can feel better is such a good thing. Let him have to "decide what to do". [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.06.08, 05:09 PM Flag
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You ALREADY lied! Now you live with the reprecussions [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.06.08, 05:32 PM Flag
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why bother, [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.06.08, 05:06 PM Flag
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You'll tell him to relieve yourself. If you love him and don't plan on repeating you'll suffer by yourself. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.06.08, 05:07 PM Flag
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1. Are you a lesbian? If not, what the heck were you doing with a woman? If you are, what are you doing with your dh? 2. The ONLY reason to tell your dh is to get the guilt off of your lonely shoulders. It will ruin him forever. He doesn't need to know ANYTHING, unless you decide you're gay and you're opting out of the relationship. You need to sit down and have a little "Come to Jesus" with yourself. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.06.08, 05:15 PM Flag
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