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07.05.08, 18:15 PM General Topics
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how can a mentally ill-fragile SAHM w/o job prospects and a baby leave her DH when she has zero family to turn to? and no close friends who could help. still BFing, can't take a med. what do i do? [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 07.05.08, 06:15 PM Flag
 

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Obviously you dont leave DH. Stick it out until you have a plan and are on your way to being independant. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.05.08, 06:18 PM Flag
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it would be a few years. i would have to take the bar. go to therapy. probably take a social anxiety med. all of this after my baby is older. so i can look forward to being old-ish and alone. great. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.05.08, 06:21 PM Flag
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So you finished law school and did not take the bar? Under any circumstances you would be silly to not finish your lae education. Take the bar and get a job and stop feeling sorry for yourself. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.05.08, 06:22 PM Flag
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moved to a new state. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.05.08, 06:23 PM Flag
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op: it's worse than you may think. my situation. a lot to explain if you're just going to say 'oh, brush yourself off...' i want to and i am going to - just not while DB is a baby. i want to be with him at any cost. that is probably not a good idea though. i don't know. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.05.08, 06:24 PM Flag
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So you have no intention of leaving your DH. Why post this in the first place? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.05.08, 06:26 PM Flag
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b/c i don't really have a choice - he acts hatefully towards me all the time. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.05.08, 06:27 PM Flag
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NP: that's overly negative. Most people get married again. But your life is YOURS to shape it, and you never know what's going to happen to you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.05.08, 06:23 PM Flag
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Wait, you have a law degree? And obviously a BA. You make job prospects. Stop the Bfing, it's been long enough and get yourself on some meds already. You will be like any other unstable lawyer in this town. Get a job with th City or Federal Gov, you don' have to do it over night, but it is very hard for me to feel bad for your situation. How did you get through Law School? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.05.08, 07:00 PM Flag
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