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07.05.08, 18:09 PM General Topics
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if i tell DH that his workaholicism has spun out of control again, he tells me that he hates me, has zero respect for me-- he has all these little distorted stories about that he remembers that i would never remember. his hatred is scarying me. i don't want him around our 1 yr old and me but i only have my mom for family- she has mental illness and is more abusive than him. SAHM. what do i do? [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 07.05.08, 06:09 PM Flag

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make a six month plan and get the hell out. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.05.08, 06:11 PM Flag

loneliness is my shortcoming. i cannot handle it. i have no one. i am shy and i haven't even emotionally recovered from how alone i was when i met DH 6 yrs ago. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.05.08, 06:12 PM Flag

if he's a workaholic, let him. while he's at work, get a sitter and find a job. You don't need him or your mom. Its tough, but there are single moms out there who do well. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.05.08, 06:12 PM Flag

^^^ and DON'T get pg again with this guy [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.05.08, 06:13 PM Flag

they must be much more emotionally and psychologically well than me. and they probably have some family help of some sort? afraid my DC will suffer- DS and i have never been apart at all [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.05.08, 06:13 PM Flag

staying with someone who hates and doesn't respect his mom isn't good for him eiter. My 5yo has been to daycare or with a sitter all her life. She is fine. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.05.08, 06:15 PM Flag

op- true. it kills me that he can sense that his daddy hates his mommy. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.05.08, 06:16 PM Flag

and that behavior often repeats itself. You don't want ds to grow up to treat his wife like that. MAke a plan. You don't have to leave the house tomorrow. Just position yourself better. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.05.08, 06:18 PM Flag

There's no easy advice for you. Can you start seeing a therapist? That costs money. Will DH allow it? [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.05.08, 06:14 PM Flag