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07.03.08, 14:35 PM General Topics
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I don't know how to handle this. BIL is a verbally abusive bully. He has been "good" for a while. But now my sister's baby is due in a month. BIL has been on a rampage lately. She won't do anything about it. He has been verbally abusive to me. Is there anyway I can go and see the new baby without having to be around him? [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 02:35 PM Flag
 

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I doubt it. I hope your sis and her db are ok. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.03.08, 02:36 PM Flag
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op: it's just gotten worse and worse. i feel absolutely the worst for the dc. she already has a 2 year old. she feels "hurt" that i won't visit if bil is around, but i have to set my boundaries. she may tolerate him, but i will not [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.03.08, 02:37 PM Flag
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You are right. He sounds like a bully. There isn't anything you can do for your sister though if she doesn't want to be helped. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.03.08, 02:41 PM Flag
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op: it's so hard. i have another sibling who is trying to mediate...saying that i should visit because a baby only comes along once in a lifetime. but bil's behavior has been unacceptable. i don't pray for much, but i do pray for those dc [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.03.08, 02:47 PM Flag
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np: I kind of agree with your other sibling. Celebrate the joy with your sister now, you can make your point about BIL later. Though he sounds like such a freaking ass. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.03.08, 02:49 PM Flag
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first off you can set his ass straight. He has no right to be verbally abusive to you. Don't let him do it. Go visit sis when he's at work [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.03.08, 03:22 PM Flag
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