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07.03.08, 13:40 PM General Topics
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I have a girlfreind and we have a long and sort of rough history with each other, but we're good now. Anyway, she has had one horrible thing afeter another happen to her in the last three months. Bad depressing stuff that just keeps putting more pressure on her and everything like that. Anyway, I have left messages and such, but can you think of a nice gesture / gift / something that will cheer her up and sort of establish that - as far as I am concerned - all the bad blood between us is done with ? [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 01:40 PM Flag
 

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Well, if your relationship is all good now then leave that issue out of it. Give her a spa day (with babysitting, if it's an issue) if that's the sort of thing she enjoys. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 01:43 PM Flag
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I wasn't going to mention anything like "all's good now, right?" but I still feel that "Should I or shouldn't I" thing... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 01:45 PM Flag
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I think the only real risk is if your gift seems gratuitous, like "My life is so great and terrific that I can buy you this fabulous whatever." If money is a stressor in her life, for example, I would offer to babysit her kids so she can just have some downtime. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 01:49 PM Flag
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No, actually her family earns more than ours does so that wouldn't factor. It's just that I sometimes wonder if she thinks about how crappy it was for a while and if she's harboring anger still while I am not... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 01:51 PM Flag
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It would be a nice gesture from you and if there are any residual problem between you it might make things better [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 02:47 PM Flag
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np: I agree. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 02:48 PM Flag
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OP thank you [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 03:09 PM Flag
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