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07.03.08, 11:02 AM General Topics
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Almost 38 y/o have 1 year old db how long can I put off trying for #2? Really content at the moment but not that much time to play with.... [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 07.03.08, 11:02 AM Flag

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No one can answer this for you. If you don't want another dc yet then you can wait but you don't know if it will work. GL [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.03.08, 11:03 AM Flag

I wouldn't wait too much longer. How long did it take to get pg w/ #1? [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.03.08, 11:04 AM Flag

It took 4 months with #1. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.03.08, 11:05 AM Flag

np. If you know you want #2 then I'd go for it. If you fall pg straight away you still have 9m to get used to the idea. If you aren't sure you want #2 then wait. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.03.08, 11:07 AM Flag

I suppose that I would look at the statistics and figure out how long you're willing to wait/how much you really want to have #2. This is different for everyone, and if you have money for ivf and potential donor eggs, it may be less crucial. If you're going to beat yourself up really bad if you miss the window for #2, then I would start trying soon. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.03.08, 11:09 AM Flag

It is the only negative thing about having waited to have kids-the pressure to have another so soon. Life is moving so nicely but if we want #2 I guess you just jump in. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.03.08, 11:09 AM Flag

Having 2 close together is great. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.03.08, 11:11 AM Flag

I am just a little freaked out at thinking about the hard parts of juggling two small kids in NYC. I have to get over it if I want #2. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.03.08, 11:21 AM Flag

I am SAHM and dreaded having to cope with 2dcs but really it's been fine 21m age difference. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.03.08, 11:43 AM Flag