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07.02.08, 19:14 PM General Topics
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i am not in a sexless marriage, average 1x per week, but it is so predictable and so boring, want a dh who texts me sexy things or grabs me while i am loading the dishwsher, something a little more...i really don't want to initiate it bc it takes away the spice of it for me...any suggestions? I am thinking of just saying no to all advances so that maybe he gets extra horny? wwyd? [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 07.02.08, 07:14 PM Flag

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there is this really handy technique. It's called communicate youtr needs. Tell him what you want. 9 out of 10 men would love to hear something like that [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.02.08, 07:17 PM Flag

sex has been an issue in my marriage for the past year, he is not horny, he admits it, low sex drive, not his nature...he says it is not me it is him, maybe our marriage is doomed [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.02.08, 07:18 PM Flag

then he should first see a doctor to make sure evrything is ok. After that, ask him if he thinks spicing things up somehow might help. Is this a big change? Most couples get in a rut at some point [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.02.08, 07:20 PM Flag

Don't just say no, that will kill his confidence with you and he may stop all together. You need to initiate. Grab him in the laundry room, or in the garage. Do the completely unexpected. Chances are he will follow your lead. That really spiced up my marriage [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.02.08, 07:18 PM Flag

Once you start he might take the lead. I say initiate it, don't say no to all his advances, that's mean and he might just feel rejected! Or try this, tell him what you wrote here. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.02.08, 07:18 PM Flag

find some erotic lit that you really like and send it to him to give him new ideas [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.02.08, 07:20 PM Flag