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07.02.08, 16:02 PM General Topics
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My parents think they're in our will to be legal guardians of dd if something happened to us. They have health issues and also reallky don't know how to deal with kids. growing up with them was a nightmare. very abusive people. [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 07.02.08, 04:02 PM Flag
 

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who will be legal guardians of dd, then? you should probably set them straight. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.08, 04:04 PM Flag
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right now, dh's aunt and uncle. they live in the same town as my parents and tend to be pretty even handed people. it's not an ideal situation. we also considered dh's sister, but i have some serious issues with her. but perhaps not more serious than if dd lost her parents and had to go live with her family. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.08, 04:06 PM Flag
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^^i don't know that it helps to tell them for a situation that has a small likelihood of happening. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.08, 04:06 PM Flag
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Our lawyer suggested that we don't inform anyone if they are designated as a guardian or trustee for our children--and of course, also if they weren't. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.08, 04:17 PM Flag
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Are you kidding me? I think it's common practice to get someone's consent. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.08, 04:38 PM Flag
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Why wouldn't you make sure the people you designate want to be parents to your children? I was orphaned when I was a child and I would hate to think that the person who adopted me had no say in it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.08, 04:39 PM Flag
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