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07.02.08, 13:49 PM General Topics
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Should I find out sex of db? It won't affect how I plan (I'm planning yellow and green nursery and prefer gender-neutral clothes to pinks and blues) and we won't tell anyone in advance... just wondering pros and cons of either way... 12wks atm [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 07.02.08, 01:49 PM Flag
 

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I loved knowing. wasnt going to find out then changed my mind [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.08, 01:51 PM Flag
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I just am terrible about surprises, can never wait. But I see no downside in waiting otherwise. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.08, 01:51 PM Flag
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I decided not to find out because I thought it would be so amazing to find out at the birth BUT when it came down to it I didn't even think to ask! I was so tired I don't think I would have cared if it was an alien let alone if it was a boy or girl. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.08, 01:52 PM Flag
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lol! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.08, 01:54 PM Flag
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lol this is funny [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.08, 02:00 PM Flag
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with your first it doesn't really matter, it's more of whether you can wait to find out or not. i couldn't wait. i had to know! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.08, 01:56 PM Flag
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I'm just not sure... DH doesn't want to wait, but says it is up to me. Might just give in so he can know [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.08, 01:56 PM Flag
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my thought is that it's a surprise if you find out at 5 months or when the kid pops out. i really liked knowing i was having a girl- even though i planned all neutral too, i found myself looking a girly things after finding out. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.08, 01:59 PM Flag
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ita. knowing helped me envision my db a little better, and was really helpful with names since we could just focus on a boy's name. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.08, 02:56 PM Flag
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I hate to wait so I found out every single time. I loved knowing and calling db by his or her name. It was a surprise for me..but I just got my surprise a little sooner [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.08, 01:59 PM Flag
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you only have to think of one name. also, IMO, if you really want one or the ohter, i think you should find out early. so if you aren't getting the sex you want, you have time to adjust. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.08, 02:26 PM Flag
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I loved not knowing. There's something that creeps me out about people who find out and start referring to their DBs by name in utero. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.08, 02:36 PM Flag
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ita. also, i disagree with the pp that especially if you're wanting one or the other, you should find out ahead of time. imo, leaving it til the moment of birth would be better in that case, since presumably you'll just be so thrilled to meet your new baby that you really won't care about the gender. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.08, 03:37 PM Flag
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