UrbanBaby

07.02.08, 10:22 AM Toddler
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My three year old ds is a real displine problem at school- hitting not listening ect... at home and at the park he is usually good and listens to me is it the school or my child- teacher thinks he has a learning disablility [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
Toddler 07.02.08, 10:22 AM Flag

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i would check this out if I were you. It may not be a disability but you want to rule this out. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.02.08, 10:24 AM Flag

i have an appointment next week i just can't understand why it only happens at school [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.02.08, 10:25 AM Flag

maybe he has a hard time when its not one on one like it is with you? [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.02.08, 10:27 AM Flag

NP: Could be the teacher isn't great or DS just doesn't click with teacher for whatever reason. Do any other parents have similar issues? A friend of my DS's is the same--awful at school and (according to his parents) good at home (although I've never witnessed that). [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.02.08, 10:29 AM Flag

5 of the 6 boys in the class are problems and my son seems to defiant towards the teacher he doesn't accept any displine from her at all [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.02.08, 12:46 PM Flag

Then it sounds like there's an issue with the teacher. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.03.08, 05:34 AM Flag

sounds like the teacher [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.02.08, 12:48 PM Flag

get it checked out, but he's three... I wouldn't worry too much. Many 3yo are just not ready for school. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.02.08, 12:51 PM Flag

my son was having issues w/ behavior, but pushing w/ other kids, and it turns out to sensory issues. he is 4 - he gets overwhelmed and doesn't know how to act, so he acts out. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.02.08, 12:54 PM Flag

oops- didn't finish post. he now goes for occupational therapy, and is learning to express himself - say he needs quiet time, or needs his space. and things are much better. and it's not a learning disability. he is extremely smart. so i suggest reading some books - the spirited child is very good - which sort of pointed me in the direction of sensory issues. it was only a small mention in the book, but then i looked into it more, and sort of self diagnosed it, and then got him evaluated. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.02.08, 12:58 PM Flag

how did your son behave at home [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.02.08, 03:06 PM Flag

yes - a large, active classroom can be overwhelming for children with sensory integration issues. The issues don't show up the same way at home because it is a completely different environment. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.02.08, 07:42 PM Flag

so actually it was not fake "sensory issues" but you just needed a professional to show you how to discipline/redirect his normal 4 yo behavior [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.03.08, 04:37 AM Flag

he is sometimes sensative to loud noises [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.02.08, 03:29 PM Flag

is that the only issue [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.03.08, 04:18 AM Flag

me too, I guess I have "sensory disorder" too [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.03.08, 04:40 AM Flag

I think if you look enough you can find something wrong with every child [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.03.08, 09:42 AM Flag

he still should be checked [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.03.08, 11:38 AM Flag

any other problems maybe aniexty [ Reply | More