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07.01.08, 19:48 PM General Topics
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Paging Dr Freud: I wonder if since having a DD, anyone else has become well, repelled, by their DHs sexuality? I find since having her, especially as she grows into a little girl - the idea of men as nothing more than base animals has become present in the back of my mind. DH included. Discuss... [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 07.01.08, 07:48 PM Flag
 

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You're thinking too much IMO. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 07:51 PM Flag
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That's the funny thing - it's not something I'm actively thinking about...just something that hit me out of the blue. I wonder if all women go through this at some point when they have a little girl. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 07:53 PM Flag
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its time to smoke some pot and get base with your dh. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.01.08, 07:54 PM Flag
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I have 2 dds and have grown really disgusted with many men in general. I get repulsed with the way I see these men look at and devour these little girls in the streets. It turns my stomach and it gets me angry. I've seen grown men (40's) that I know have dds look at 16yr olds with this attack look on them and it skeeves me out. I can't understand how a man who has a dd and wouldn't want another doing this to their dd..does this to other young girls. Just disgusting [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.08, 03:46 AM Flag
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exactly! do you feel that way toward your dh as well, since he's 'one of them'? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.08, 05:40 PM Flag
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I don't feel like that, but the idea of my DH with his mouth on my breasts repulses me. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.02.08, 05:41 PM Flag
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OP: OK, I think I can verbalize this better, now. Last night, I saw the Christie Brinkley 'scandal' on the news and they talked about her DH's pecadilloes and his quote to the effect: "I never let my children know about my sexual interests". Well they know all about it NOW you loser! This thinking started when the Spitzer scandal broke - and how he was into young girls, despite being the father of 2 DDs. It made my blood curdle. My DH has gotten caught with funk on the 'net as well - so now I lump the whole lot of them into the 'animal bucket'. Most are so un-evolved that they can't control impulse-one would think/hope being a father of a girl might help change this. But, alas, no. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.03.08, 06:21 AM Flag
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i would think being the father of attractive teenage girls would only make the attraction to young girls stronger. i assume most men are deeply attracted to their daughters, and deeply horrified by it. Sorry. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.03.08, 07:21 AM Flag
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This is an interesting viewpoint...that their impulses -instead of being more controlled when they become fathers of DD's - actually become less controlled b/c of the subconscious attraction. How very creepy! This frighteningly reinforces my belief in the 'animal bucket'. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.03.08, 07:40 AM Flag
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it is really sad that you think like that [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.03.08, 07:56 AM Flag
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do you really doubt it? i kind of think that's human nature. we're not as evolved as we think we are. most dads would never, ever, ever want to act on their attraction, i'm sure, but other teenage girls, who are, let's face it, extremely attractive, are fair game. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.03.08, 08:01 AM Flag
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np: I really think you are disturbed. There is a vast difference between your DH looking at a little porn and a man with a sex addition/unnatural attraction to young women. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.03.08, 07:27 AM Flag
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LOL - yes I am clearly very disturbed by this! You didn't have access to the computer before saying DH was 'looking a little porn'. I think the idea is that they all on some level have an attraction to young women, and the stories in the news hit a little too close to home. Disturbed. yes. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.03.08, 07:32 AM Flag
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I can't imagine living with a man I thought was a pervert. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.03.08, 07:54 AM Flag
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welcome to my world. Not saying he is a molester by any stretch for goodness sakes...but his sexuality (normal, male-wired) has become more disturbing to me as my little girl gets older. Unrelated to any danger to her - just in general. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 07.03.08, 08:00 AM Flag
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