UrbanBaby

07.01.08, 05:07 AM New York City
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WWYD. Saw BFs DH with another woman 8 months ago. I agonized over telling her, finally did. They are in therapy working it out and I never mention it but the DH knows it was me who told on him. Our relationship is dead, with the DH, and it makes seeing my BF uncomfortable. Should I openly discuss this with her Dh or leave it alone? They will make it as a couple but we may not make it as friends. [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
New York City 07.01.08, 05:07 AM Flag

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do not say anything. just let time pass. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.01.08, 05:21 AM Flag

ita- you are always going to be associated with that moment- let them work it out and get to a point where they can let you in again [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.01.08, 05:27 AM Flag

But in the meantime? My friend and I have no issues between us but she wants everything to be normal as if nothing ever happened. So even though it is horrible and awkward I do see them both for her sake but when we see each other (my DH won't see her DH, their friendship is broken for good I think) her DH just glares at ,e. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.01.08, 05:44 AM Flag

I would take a step back, leave it to her to take the initiative. She is probably humiliated and has a hard time facing you right now. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.01.08, 05:59 AM Flag

Leave it alone. You did nothing wrong, he did. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 07.01.08, 06:01 AM Flag