< Return to Talk
06.29.08, 18:53 PM General Topics
18 replies
Whenever I'm upset and crying dh says something to the effect of, [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 06.29.08, 06:53 PM Flag
 

Dear UrbanBaby community,

Thank you so much for being a valued member of the UrbanBaby community. We wanted to inform you that we are shutting down the site on July 6th. We are grateful for your participation and support that has helped make UrbanBaby such an important resource to parents for many years.

If you have any questions or concerns, you can email us at urbanbaby-support@cbsinteractive.com.

Thanks so much,

UrbanBaby Support

»
^^^^ "Stop crying, why are you crying, it's so immature and I cannot stand it!" [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.29.08, 06:54 PM Flag
»
I hope that this isn't the same person that dh makes fun of her for going to bed to get up with 1yo [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.29.08, 06:58 PM Flag
»
No. I cry maybe once every couple of weeks and he has never once comforted me. Like wtf? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.29.08, 07:00 PM Flag
»
that is a lot of crying imo [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.29.08, 07:05 PM Flag
»
Usually he's the cause of it [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.29.08, 07:06 PM Flag
»
then he's doubly a jerk, and I would be thinking about moving on. I've never heard such a horrible response from a guy making a dw cry [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.29.08, 07:08 PM Flag
»
no it's not... and he's a jerk for not comforting op [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.29.08, 07:06 PM Flag
»
He obviously was not allowed to cry as a child. In my family - the one who cried "lost" the fight so to this day I have a serious problem saying sorry even if something is my fault because I am so conditioned not to lose". Even tho I KNOW this is wrong it is really, really hard to break my conditioning. Hopefully he can change with come serious therapy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.29.08, 07:09 PM Flag
»
HE can change with therapy!? OMG are you serious? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.29.08, 07:13 PM Flag
»
Why? Do you not believe that people can change once they realize the root cause of their behavior? It would be better for him to just blindly continue in this obviously hurtful and damaging behavior? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.29.08, 07:15 PM Flag
»
Because OP sounds as nutty as her DH. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.29.08, 07:16 PM Flag
»
based on the fact that her dh makes her cry? I really wish that the snarky woman who keeps beating up on others when they are down would just go away. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.29.08, 07:18 PM Flag
»
Have a drink crazy Daisy. OP admits she has a "serious problem saying sorry even if something in my fault..." and she is crying 1x every 2 weeks = get therapy ASAP [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.29.08, 07:20 PM Flag
»
Sorry, you must be the drunk one - you can't even tell the diff bet the OP and and the OR (me!). I was responding to her post. Try reading before replying.... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.29.08, 07:24 PM Flag
»
Try writing OR like everyone else, your response wasn't interesting enough to track very closely. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.29.08, 07:25 PM Flag
»
usually it is only the op that identifies herself... would you please go away now? No one likes you here anymore than they do in real life. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.29.08, 07:28 PM Flag
»
she never said that she had problem saying sorry, I think that was a nr explaining how she has same problem as the dh does and trying to add prespective... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.29.08, 07:24 PM Flag
»
Is dh willing to go to therapy? It may at least help you understand what is going on. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.29.08, 07:29 PM Flag
Refresh » New Post »
close [X]

close [X]

Select a Category (only 1)

category
Stages
Regions