UrbanBaby

06.28.08, 19:38 PM General Topics
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love fiance but am increasingly concerned about his obsession with money and the fact that I'm more ambitious and will paying 5x - 6x more for equity in the house we plan to buy. I've asked him repeatedly to go to a blended family therapist and he has done NOTHING to set it up. I am unhappy, love his kids and think I should end the engagement so I have less stress in my life. I feel he gets more out of me/having me around/my help than he gives to me. It's all just too much. any advice on how to end it nicely? [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 06.28.08, 07:38 PM Flag

Dear UrbanBaby community,

Thank you so much for being a valued member of the UrbanBaby community. We wanted to inform you that we are shutting down the site on July 6th. We are grateful for your participation and support that has helped make UrbanBaby such an important resource to parents for many years.

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^ and keep on thinking "remember, men get remarried after divorce much faster, there is more in it for them than for a woman to get remarried -- unless it's an amazingly giving and not so selfish guy, the woman is short changed" [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.28.08, 07:40 PM Flag

There's no ending it nicely or cleanly. But that doesn't mean it's not the best choice for you. Sorry it's so rough. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.28.08, 07:40 PM Flag

you love him and his kids, but he's not rich enough, so you want to break up? maybe you're the one who needs the therapist. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.28.08, 07:41 PM Flag

I would think my fiancee was a nutcase if she suggested something called a 'blended family therapist.' [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.28.08, 07:42 PM Flag