UrbanBaby

06.27.08, 17:41 PM General Topics
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What are the chances that my husband is cheating on me if he sleeps on the couch, generally dislikes me as a person and hasn't initiated sex in 6 months? [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 06.27.08, 05:41 PM Flag

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wait a minute...thats my DH! If we are sharing a husband the chances are low - too fat, lazy and asexual to muster up the energy. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.27.08, 05:42 PM Flag

op: and he watches porn on the internet. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.27.08, 05:43 PM Flag

thats why he isn't interested in you. You aren't airbrushed, waxed and delighted at the idea of a 30 minute blowjob. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.27.08, 05:46 PM Flag

nnp Nah! My DH watches porn all the time but he still prefers me [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.27.08, 05:47 PM Flag

yea, i know and it is SO frustrating. I mean I even stooped as low as to watch it with him, and it just didn't work. I felt stupid and fat. Which, I am really not that bad to look at , if I don't say so myself. But, I am real, their not. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.27.08, 05:48 PM Flag

What kind of porn is he into? I find it a useful window on whatever inner workings they have. Standard meat 'n potato porn vs. kinkier/fetish, etc. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.27.08, 05:50 PM Flag

normal stuff....international stuff too, not anything weird, he really likes erotic stories too [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.27.08, 05:51 PM Flag

what's up with the asexuality....isn't it weird? [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.27.08, 05:43 PM Flag

I have found my sex drive stronger than 99% of men I dated. I think the idea of sexually charged men is largely a myth. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.27.08, 05:44 PM Flag

I'm the same way, but it still is a horrible feeling to have your husband sleep on the couch, mostly for the reason I think to piss me off and so he won't have to accidently have sex. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.27.08, 05:46 PM Flag

OR: Its all about power and control. If he knows you want sex then withholding it is a good "punishment". [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.27.08, 05:47 PM Flag

OP: I do think it is an act of passive aggressive behavior. I am getting ready to throw the couch out the door. Seriously [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.27.08, 05:50 PM Flag

So why is he mad at you? [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.27.08, 05:50 PM Flag

The whole sleeping on the couch thing started almost the same month that I got pregnant with my oldest....He really has no reason to be mad at me, I haven't had any major offenses. [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.27.08, 05:52 PM Flag

So its not so much you as his "situation", being a dad maybe? Working at a job he does not like? [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.27.08, 05:53 PM Flag

Who knows...why does he get to hide behind excuses and women have to live and get over it. Ahhhhh [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.27.08, 05:54 PM Flag

I totally agree [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.27.08, 05:46 PM Flag

unfortunately, I'd say the chances he's cheating are pretty good [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.27.08, 05:46 PM Flag

but, i thought if they were cheating, one of the signs was an increase of sex with the wife [ Reply | More

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General Topics 06.27.08, 05:47 PM Flag