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06.27.08, 13:32 PM General Topics
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What was your DH wearing when you conceived your oldest child? [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 06.27.08, 01:32 PM Flag
 

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wow, I actually know this as we were at a wedding and there are photos. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 01:34 PM Flag
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Where did you actually have sex? How was the sex? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 01:37 PM Flag
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At our hotel after (a tacky Holiday Inn! So depressing...poor ds!). The sex was great. Many drinks at the wedding... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 01:38 PM Flag
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Well were you paying much attention to teh decour at the time? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 01:39 PM Flag
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What position did you use? Were you planning sex that night? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 01:40 PM Flag
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a dh: a smile! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 01:42 PM Flag
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how was the sex? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 01:43 PM Flag
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Both my sons were concieved from really good sex. The funny thing is I knew I had "sealed the deal" both times. My wife has concieved four times. (She had two MCs.) Three of those times I knew. Not a doubt. And those were the only three times I ever said that. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 01:49 PM Flag
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How did you know? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 01:50 PM Flag
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Did you ever just know something? The first time we weren't actively trying -- just playing roulette. I came and we were just kind of lying there afterwords and I said, "That was it." She asked me what and I said, "You're pregnant." She took a Clear Blue Easy a little while later and it came back negative. I was totally shocked. I really thought I knew what I was talking about. She laughed and I felt a little silly. Then the next morning she did another test (the pink one -- I can't remember the name) just to be sure and it came back positive. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 01:58 PM Flag
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Very cool! What did DW when she discovered that you were right? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 01:59 PM Flag
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As much as I love being right... that was not what she (or I) focused on. (That is the pc answer, right? Truth is, I joke about it all the time. And I walked around like the king of the sperm deliverers for months.) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 02:04 PM Flag
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LOL.....yeah you have every right to do that! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 02:05 PM Flag
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Another DH: When my wife got pregnant I had the thought process of "My boys can swim! They work!" [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 02:05 PM Flag
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Totally. A combination of "I am a man." (which I acknowledge is pretty juvenile and unfair to men who have issues with fert) and "Thank god that time I jumped my green Schwinn Stingray over Chris Donahue's sister in 5th grade and landed crooked and crushed my nads in the crash I guess I didn't break anything." [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 02:11 PM Flag
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OR: I totally agree. I felt the same way. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 02:13 PM Flag
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What made the sex really good those two times you conceived your sons? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 01:50 PM Flag
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No worries. Just really in tune with each other. Her mom was in the house one time and my cousin another time so we had to be quiet. The second time was in the morning. Good morning sex is always great. (They say sex is like pizza: When it is good it is great and when it is bad... it is still pretty good!) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 02:01 PM Flag
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Sounds really cool.....that you both clicked and it was just good. Did you get dressed after or stay naked? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 02:02 PM Flag
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the morning one we definitely got dressed afterwards. I never get dressed for sleeping. She usually puts on a tee and a pair of my boxer briefs [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 02:17 PM Flag
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so you sleep naked? very nice! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 02:18 PM Flag
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Another DH here: I agree, good morning sex is always great! Actually I am pretty sure we conceived our oldest son during morning sex, I had that same feeling when we were done that I had sealed the deal. It was just a feeling and the timing is about rihgt. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 02:03 PM Flag
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What position was each time? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 02:04 PM Flag
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Missionary with me holding her legs up in the air. I find if I rub her feet while we do it like that, she is really really nice to me for long periods of time afterwords. (I do remember that I held her legs up for an extra long time after we were done that first time and may have done it again the second time. (The second time we were trying and I really wanted another boy.)) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 02:15 PM Flag
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Couldn't reply under you. DH here: I've never liked having to hold her legs up like that. It is more tiring. Usually she wraps her legs around my waist during missionary. With our oldest it was doggie style. Started missionary and moved to doggie. Was really good. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 02:17 PM Flag
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dh#1: my dw has really long legs. It is almost using ski poles to get a good jump out of the starting gate. Well, a good jump, jump, jump, jump, jump, jump, jump, jump, jump, jump, jump, jump, jump, jump, jump, jump, jump into the... never mind. (That IS the mother of my children.) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 02:23 PM Flag
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I'm not sure. He wasn't there. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 01:43 PM Flag
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who was there? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 01:43 PM Flag
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His boss. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 01:45 PM Flag
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seriously? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 01:45 PM Flag
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Yes. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 01:46 PM Flag
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Does DH have a clue [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 01:47 PM Flag
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Hell no. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 01:48 PM Flag
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Why are you sleepign wtih his boss? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 01:47 PM Flag
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Because he's hot. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 01:48 PM Flag
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How did it start? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 01:49 PM Flag
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He came on to me at DH's office party. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 01:51 PM Flag
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How soon after did you end up in bed with him? does he know its his kid? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 01:52 PM Flag
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We did it in his office during the party. Yes, he knows. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 01:54 PM Flag
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How was the sex that night? What did he say when you told him? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 01:56 PM Flag
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The sex was mind-blowing. When I told him about his son, he actually seemed kind of smug. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 01:57 PM Flag
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How does he act about his son now? What is his relationshiop with DH? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 01:58 PM Flag
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Smug. DH says he's kind of an a-hole at work. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 02:04 PM Flag
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What would DH do if he knew that you were having an affair and it wasn't his son? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 02:04 PM Flag
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Like I said, I don't even want to think about that. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 02:06 PM Flag
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Answer it [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 02:07 PM Flag
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No thank you. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 02:08 PM Flag
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Smug, how so? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 01:59 PM Flag
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Just seemed really pleased with himself. I thought he would be freaked. He wasn't. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 01:59 PM Flag
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How well does he know his son? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 02:01 PM Flag
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Well, he sees his son several times a week ... so pretty well I guess. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 02:03 PM Flag
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Does anyone know about the affair? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 01:56 PM Flag
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I've told no one. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 01:58 PM Flag
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Are you sure the child is his bosses? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 01:47 PM Flag
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Yes. DH and I had been TTC for 3 years. Nothing. Thought it was me. Apparently it was him. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 01:49 PM Flag
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Ah......how old is the kid? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 01:51 PM Flag
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14 months. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 01:53 PM Flag
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What would DH do if he found out it was his bosses? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 01:54 PM Flag
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I don't even want to think about it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 01:55 PM Flag
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What would DH do? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 01:56 PM Flag
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Who is better in bed? Is the boss married? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 01:49 PM Flag
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Boss, hands down. Single. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 01:50 PM Flag
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have you thought of getting a divorce to be with the boss? how old is DH and how old is the boss? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 01:51 PM Flag
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Boss is not interested in marriage. He's 30. DH is 44. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 01:52 PM Flag
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how old are you? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 01:54 PM Flag
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39 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 01:55 PM Flag
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do you still have sex wtih DH? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 01:51 PM Flag
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Of course. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 01:53 PM Flag
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How often with DH, how often with the boss? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 01:54 PM Flag
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once a week with DH. 3-4x week with boss. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 01:56 PM Flag
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Do either use condoms? Where do you do it with the boss? What are their underwear preferences? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 01:57 PM Flag
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Neither use condoms. Boss comes to our home for lunch. DH likes boxers. Boss likes bikinis. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 01:59 PM Flag
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What do you think of the bikinis? Does teh boss sleep with other women? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 02:01 PM Flag
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LOVE them. He has the perfect ass and package for them! Yes, he sleeps with other women. In fact, DH says he has a reputation around the office for womanizing. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 02:02 PM Flag
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Are you worried about an STD from the boss? What does DH think abotu the boss and his reputation? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 02:03 PM Flag
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No, not worried about an STD. He's careful. DH actually didn't want me to meet his boss at all. He only reluctantly brought me to that party because the boss insisted. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 02:05 PM Flag
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Ah [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 02:06 PM Flag
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What is your honest opinion of DH? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 02:10 PM Flag
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A nice man, and a good father. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 02:11 PM Flag
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How does DH look in his boxers? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 02:08 PM Flag
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He looks pretty cute. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 02:09 PM Flag
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What brand of boxers? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 02:11 PM Flag
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You have a 14 month old and have sex 4-5 times a week with two different guys! Wow! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 02:06 PM Flag
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Does anyone notice the boss coming over that much [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 02:07 PM Flag
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I don't think anyone notices. Luckily we don't live in a doorman building! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 02:09 PM Flag
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Why is sex better with the boss? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 02:15 PM Flag
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He's in much better shape. He's *bigger*. He's more playful. He pushes my limits. And he's introduced me to some pretty fun kink! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 02:16 PM Flag
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What does the boss like to do that's kinky? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 02:18 PM Flag
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Bondage, domination, tickle torture, 69. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 02:20 PM Flag
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DH here: If I was your DH and I found out, I'd get a divorce, take everything I could and tyr to get my boss fired. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 02:06 PM Flag
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Well, good luck with that. Screwing a subordinate's wife is not a fireable offense. In fact, the Good Old Boys at the senior level would probably reward him with a promotion. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 02:08 PM Flag
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I would still get a divorce and look for a new job. How can you toy with DH's emotions like that. What kind of father is DH like? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 02:09 PM Flag
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DH is a wonderful father. And no one is "toying" with his emotions -- I have no intention to ever let him find out. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 02:10 PM Flag
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If he finds out he will be devestated that not only are you cheating on him but lying to him about his son. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 02:12 PM Flag
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np. He'll be in good company. A recent article in Men's Health said an estimated 10% of American men are raising kids they THINK are their own, but are not. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 02:13 PM Flag
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Wow! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 02:14 PM Flag
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There are a lot of lying sluts out there! Poor DHs. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 02:15 PM Flag
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That's horrible. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 02:15 PM Flag
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What's even more horrible was the other main point of the article: these women's doctors KNOW, but are bound by confidentiality oaths to never disclose this information to their husbands. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 02:17 PM Flag
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np: in general, i don't think that's horrible. the doctor needs to know; the patient's marriage isn't her business; andin some cases revelaing that is goign to expose the woman or child to abuse. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 02:19 PM Flag
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Wow! That's horrible. I mean that's horrible. These men should know. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 02:19 PM Flag
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ITTTTA. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 02:21 PM Flag
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VIVA SANJAYA [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 03:48 PM Flag
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seriously. surprised no one called troll earlier. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 06:03 PM Flag
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Nothing. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 01:46 PM Flag
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he just came back from the gym, mesh shorts and a white tank [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 03:22 PM Flag
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His work clothes - he is a postal worker [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 03:23 PM Flag
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his tux - it happened an hour after our wedding [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 03:45 PM Flag
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nothing - we were in the tub [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 03:46 PM Flag
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no idea [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 03:57 PM Flag
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His skin and my sweat. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 04:15 PM Flag
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basketball uniform - just came from his last college game [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 06:26 PM Flag
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His wedding tuxedo--we have a honeymoon baby [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 08:13 PM Flag
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an elvis costume - i am unfortunately completely serious [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.27.08, 09:13 PM Flag
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