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06.26.08, 10:06 AM General Topics
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For various reasons, bf'ing my ds didn't work out and I only did it for a month. I'd like to give it a shot for #2 -- but if I end up bf'ing #2 for several months, should I feel guilty that db #1 didn't get that? [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 06.26.08, 10:06 AM Flag
 

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No - kids are different, circumstances change. You do the best you can for each one that doesn't mean the exact same thing. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.26.08, 10:10 AM Flag
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no. there will be a million other things to feel guilty about. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.26.08, 10:10 AM Flag
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Thanks, good point! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.26.08, 10:11 AM Flag
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Same happened to me #1 got bf for 3 mos, still bf'ding #2. #2 is a different kid, much more high maintenance. #1 was born during a very stressful time during some strange family circumstances. It's OK [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.26.08, 10:11 AM Flag
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no guilt -- # 2 is not going to be an only child either, which #1 got to do for a while -- they are different kids... you are a different person now -- just love them and give them what you can according to their needs, and it's fine. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.26.08, 10:18 AM Flag
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