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06.25.08, 18:43 PM General Topics
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Need some moral support right now. Really bothered by mom in our very small building who constantly snubs me at the playroom and playground. Dad is very friendly to DH and me and their DC is sweet. Mom ignors me pretends not to see me so she doesn't have to say hello etc. I usually can get along with anyone but really bothers me that she's chosen to dislike for some reason and can't just be nice because of the kids. How would you handle? We're neighbors. [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 06.25.08, 06:43 PM Flag
 

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i would let it go. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.25.08, 06:44 PM Flag
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maybe she's just shy or think you don't like her or maybe you smell. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.25.08, 06:44 PM Flag
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ah yes, b.o., the bane of human fellowship. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.25.08, 06:52 PM Flag
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Wave all friendly like and go about your business. A couple of my neighbors have decided, for no reason that I can figure, that I'm not their kinda gal. I say, to each her own. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.25.08, 06:46 PM Flag
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thanks. thats the kind of advice/support I was looking for. I know to do that but somehow I have to figure out how to keep it from bothering me. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.25.08, 06:49 PM Flag
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Unless you've done something to be ashamed of, she just has some drama in her head. I mean, why bother being unfriendly to a neighbor? That's effed up. I like all my neighbors, even if I don't. We live too close for feuds. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.25.08, 06:50 PM Flag
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The only thing I feel funny about is that I'm very friendly/open and I guess I was a little too nice before I realized that she just wasn't someone I could win over. I guess because we have to see each other everyday and the kids like each other it really bothers me. Everyone else in my building is great. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.25.08, 06:54 PM Flag
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Oh, that's me. I'm way friendly. I can tell that is EXACTLY what bugs these other women. They are far too cool for me. So I WAVE at them. Howdy! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.25.08, 06:55 PM Flag
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Good to hear I'm not alone here. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.25.08, 06:57 PM Flag
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NP Is this the first time in your life someone hasn't wanted to be your friend? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.26.08, 05:34 AM Flag
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I have almost the same story--there was one mom at put playground who always gave me the stink eye. our dds ended up in the same class, and I always made a big point to smile and say hi. I've decided she's socially awkward. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.25.08, 06:51 PM Flag
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I plan on doing that but she's not socially awkward. She says hello and smiles and everyone else and then ignores me! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.25.08, 06:55 PM Flag
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It's obvious. She's sleeping with your DH. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.25.08, 06:56 PM Flag
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Now that would be immoral AND stupid. On my block, the woman that was sleeping with another woman's DH made great efforts to be best friends with her. Worked for years, evidently. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.25.08, 07:06 PM Flag
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she really might just be an anti-social person. It might not have anything to do with you. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.26.08, 06:04 AM Flag
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So you live in the same building. That doesn not mean the woman has to like you. Just get over it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.26.08, 05:33 AM Flag
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This happened to me, and I really don't understand it either. Some people are simply incapable of neighborliness. We're not looking to be their best friends! Just ignore them [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.26.08, 05:36 AM Flag
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