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06.25.08, 13:18 PM General Topics
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newly divorce mom, met this guy 2.5 months ago we seem to have a good time everytime we see eachother which is everyother week when my ds is with my ex. The thing is that this new man used to send msgs at the beginning almost everyday, lately he is just getting in touch when my free weekend is approaching. Time for a talk? Should I ask what is he looking for, I really like him... [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 06.25.08, 01:18 PM Flag
 

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anyone??? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.25.08, 01:21 PM Flag
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weren't you here just a couple of days ago [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.25.08, 01:28 PM Flag
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no, but it's sad that there's someone else out there in that situation [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.25.08, 01:30 PM Flag
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I think he's made it clear that he's just looking for a booty call on your free weekends. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.25.08, 01:35 PM Flag
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i agree, but it never hurts to talk it out if you want more. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.25.08, 01:36 PM Flag
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But be prepared to end it if he says, "I just want something casual right now." [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.25.08, 01:37 PM Flag
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It sucks, but it seems like that might be the case. Definitely talk to him about it though before you jump to conclusions. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.25.08, 01:39 PM Flag
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this w/e is supposed to be my free w/e, how should I start the conversation, this is new to me. What should I say/ask? Should I even accept to see him? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.25.08, 01:38 PM Flag
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I wouldn't harp on the fact that he's not contacting you as much. I would start out by asking what he is looking for in a relationship. let the conversation go from there. I would do it in person because it is easier to infer what they mean by body language. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.25.08, 01:41 PM Flag
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thanks [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.25.08, 01:45 PM Flag
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respond likewise. and one weekend forget about him totally, say your are busyl.put him on the back burner. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.25.08, 01:39 PM Flag
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that would be satisfying to do, but IME it backfires over time & creates an insane and depressing game. I vote "be upfront." [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.25.08, 02:13 PM Flag
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I agree. This guy isn't serious as we all know and having that "conversation" is just unnecessarily painful and awkward. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.25.08, 02:14 PM Flag
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maybe you should think about what you want first. if you want someone for booty call yourself from time to time, no harm in keeping him around while you look for someone else. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.25.08, 03:06 PM Flag
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it's only 2.5 months, I think we should give the guy a break too. He is just probably getting to know you. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.25.08, 06:37 PM Flag
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