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06.24.08, 13:35 PM New York City
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person i am dating has a crazy busy schedule lately. he still makes time to see me however i have to do all the inviting. he used to ask me sunday for dinner on wednesday, but since we got more serious, he seems very comfortable and doesnt "ask" me out anymore. instead it seems like i do all the asking but he always says yes. is it terrible that i do the asking now? i know its breaking all the rules. or should i boycott the asking and wait to see if he asks me out. that being said, we spend all of our free time together. he certainly isn't blowing me off by any means [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
New York City 06.24.08, 01:35 PM Flag
 

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what makes you think he isn't blowing you off ? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 01:38 PM Flag
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if he was blowing me off wouldn't he make excuses to not see me? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 01:40 PM Flag
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maybe the offers you make seem better than a day alone, but he doesn't really care enough to call you himself to make plans. maybe it's an indifference ? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 01:42 PM Flag
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really? this is depressing. fwiw, he does cut biz trips short to see me and come home early. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 01:44 PM Flag
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^^^also he always calls me. i never call him [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 01:44 PM Flag
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Well if he always calls you then he must want to talk to you. I now change my initial opinion to side with other poster who suggested you tell him how you feel and he willmost likely try to be more attentive. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 01:46 PM Flag
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I would just say to him what you just said i'm sure he'll understand and start making more of an effort. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 01:41 PM Flag
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you need to talk to him about this becuase you are confused. sort it out and i think everything will be better and you will both be closer for it. that's how relationships grow. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 01:49 PM Flag
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