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06.24.08, 12:31 PM Toddler
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I guess this would be the best place to ask. I have very low libido, and actually always have, but almost nonexistent these days. I'm still nursing, but I don't know how much better it could get once I wean. Anyone have a good book, or website that could help me with this issue? I've never seeked any help, but am willing to now. TIA [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
Toddler 06.24.08, 12:31 PM Flag
 

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I would start by talking to your OB. I'm certain you will not be the first person to talk to him/her about this. GL. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 12:34 PM Flag
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I did briefly a few years ago, but he's a little old school, and it was aukward. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 12:39 PM Flag
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then get a new ob... They need to be able to handle these issues professionally... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 12:59 PM Flag
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you say you always have. have there been tiems in your life that have been diferent, even if briefly? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 12:39 PM Flag
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I've never been sexed craved. I did have a little bit more of a libido before having kids, but on a scale of 1-10, I'd say I was always a 3 or 4max, now I'm a 1. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 12:43 PM Flag
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i'd say i'm generally the same way, but there are definitely soem thigns that make me feel sexier. i find actualy that ding it mre makes me want it more, but you may be too tired for that. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 12:44 PM Flag
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Yeah, I kind of do it these days just because I feel sorry for DH. I don't really enjoy it, and basically wait for it to be over. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 12:47 PM Flag
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bfing can do a number on your hormones. somepeople are jsut this way, but you can try talking to a doc. if your GYN isn't the one, your promary care doc. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 12:49 PM Flag
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I didn't think of my pcp. I probably would be more comfortable talking to her. Thanks. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 12:51 PM Flag
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good luck. but don't feel bad if things don't change. you are who you are. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 12:52 PM Flag
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Is it awful if i say...so what? Just do it - its like cooking dinner or laundry. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 12:53 PM Flag
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Lol! I totally agree. I couldn't care less if I don't have sex, but DH wants to me to be a little into it. He's been pretty good, considering we've been together 13 years, and he new I was like this before marriage. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 12:58 PM Flag
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np: me, too. i have a 5mo that i am still nursing. sex drive didn't return with db #1 until i stopped nursing *completely*. don't want to wait til then, though... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 12:56 PM Flag
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^^^OP: the other thing I forgot to mention, is the only time I'm in the mood is in the middle of the day. With our work schedules, we're lucky if we get a full day together out side of the office, so it does get a little tricky. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 01:05 PM Flag
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