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06.24.08, 11:49 AM General Topics
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Never thought I’d write this. I am a very attractive and smart divorced woman, late 30's. All of a sudden I can't stop thinking that I would like to meet another woman, possibly like me...Why am I looking for such a person? Well, I am heterosexual, have always liked men … but in the past year I have just started to feel something difficult to describe with words - I found myself curious about meeting a woman and seeing what would happen, if all the traits important to me were present. It could be only a quality friendship that I seek, who knows. I don’t to be honest, and I apologize if all this does not makes sense, and of all places for posting here. But I guess I just wanted to hear if this is normal, if anyone else has felt the same way. Thanks. [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 06.24.08, 11:49 AM Flag
 

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You sound very clear about this. You should pursue it. You'll know eventually if it's right for you. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 11:55 AM Flag
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boy, on the old UB you would have already had a bunch of 'offers' from wanna be lesbian moms. OK - this crowd is a big tamer - I think it is normal to fantasize about women. men are SO draining and sometimes I think woman just want the ease that goes with hanging out with other women. No advice really; haven't really btdt but have done a lot of fantasizing and more about being with another woman. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 11:56 AM Flag
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men are more draining than women??? LOL LOL [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 11:58 AM Flag
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np: ITA. I have fantasies about women, but in no way would it be less effort for a relationship than with a man! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 12:00 PM Flag
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nnp very very true. BTDT. men and women are people. People have issues. Neither one is a picnic! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 12:06 PM Flag
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hmm, i think this it's totally normal to want to have a close woman friend who you have a lot in common with. if you're thinking you might want it to be more, that's normal enough too- i mean, just go with it and see where it leads. you might find that friendship is all you want, you might want more. but it's ok to think all of that [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 12:01 PM Flag
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op- thanks. The second hardest thing is: where would I meet a woman? Please don't say websites... really not into that. I know, I guess it will be very difficult then... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 01:39 PM Flag
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go to a lesbian bar, walk in and sit down and have a drink. absorb the energy. repeat. BTW, I did this (the exploration thing) and once I got past the sexiness of the novelty, found that I am basically straight though open minded. We are all on a spectrum IMO. GL figuring it out. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 02:15 PM Flag
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also be prepared for the fact that a lot of lesbians don't like bisexuals in their territory-- but you should so what feels right for you. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 02:16 PM Flag
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Thanks- this is very helpful... I can pretty much say for sure that I am like you, perhaps after a first exploration I will realize that it was just a bit of curiosity. If I gather the courage to walk into a bar, I will do it... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 02:58 PM Flag
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i love women and my closest friends are all great wonderful and beautifully talented women, but i can't say I want to be face to face with any of their coochies... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.24.08, 01:41 PM Flag
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