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06.23.08, 19:53 PM General Topics
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I sense that a guy at my gym may be recently separated--how do I find out for sure? [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 07:53 PM Flag
 

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Say something like "I'd ask you out if I didn't see that ring on your finger" [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.23.08, 07:54 PM Flag
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OP. Sorry, but I think that's way too forward. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.23.08, 07:55 PM Flag
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Hire a private eye for a day or two. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.23.08, 07:56 PM Flag
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just ask him out and see what he says, you'll find out soon enough. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.23.08, 08:07 PM Flag
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Ok, well I have never asked a guy out. How do you do that exactly? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.23.08, 08:09 PM Flag
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You wait until after he's done working out, and when you look your best, catch him on the way out of the gym and say something to the effect that he caught your eye and you thought it might be fun to have a drink together. Smile a lot, don't apolgize or say "isn't this akward" just stick to the plan, "I'd love to sit and chat over a beer with you" Or if you think you're hot shit enough just blirt out, "why haven't we had drinks yet?" Believe me, he will be so flattered that you noticed him and impressed with your forwardness that he will have to take you up on it even if it's just to hear what you'll say next. Keep it light and funny, don't ask about separations, rings, kids or jobs...ask all about him, as a person, music, movies, and maybe a little self deprication on your part if you are super confident he'll get it. Try it, it is so empowering, you'll see, this just may be your practice guy, but you will feel like a milliion bucks for having the brass balls and confidence to even try it! I salute you, let me know how it works out! Karroyave69@yahoo.com [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.23.08, 08:20 PM Flag
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so what do you think, would you try that? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.23.08, 08:31 PM Flag
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