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06.23.08, 13:53 PM General Topics
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I am 20 and I know my Mom uses this site and I have a question. I am late and I took a pregnancy test and I am pregnant. Thing is I don't know who the father is. It could either be my boyfriend, who I last had sex with in early May (we are in differetn states this summer) or a guy at work who I had sex with in mid May. What do I do? [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 01:53 PM Flag
 

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Why did you sleep with the other guy when you have a boyfriend? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.23.08, 01:55 PM Flag
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I am already upset by it! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.23.08, 01:56 PM Flag
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And you want your mum to find out this way? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.23.08, 01:57 PM Flag
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I didn't give my name. I just know she said the advice here is good. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.23.08, 01:57 PM Flag
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Call Maury [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.23.08, 01:57 PM Flag
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lol, you said it [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.23.08, 01:58 PM Flag
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Are you pretty regular. It might help to figure out when you were most likely ovulating. This is not foolproof, of course. Do you want to have a baby now? If not, abortion is a choice. If you want to have the baby, do you want to raise it alone or with your boyfriend? Your choice is to be honest with your boyfriend, or not. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.23.08, 01:58 PM Flag
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I am pretty regular, that's why I think it was my boyfriend, but it could be the other guy. I am not sure about having a baby. How do I figure out who the father is? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.23.08, 01:59 PM Flag
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Have you been to an OB yet? Ask your doctor. Blood test is enough if they have different blood types, but of course you'd have to know their blood types. And I don't know how far along you have to be to get the blood type of the baby.... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.23.08, 02:02 PM Flag
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Good luck getting their bloodtypes without sounding a tad bit suspicious! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.23.08, 02:03 PM Flag
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well, she could probably get her boyfriend's bloodtype pretty easily. If the blood types don't match, she knows it's the other guy. If they do, she can do DNA.... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.23.08, 02:06 PM Flag
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the only sure way is to have an amnio done and do a paternity test, but that can't happen for a couple more months. When was your last period and how long do you usually go between periods? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.23.08, 02:02 PM Flag
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Please don't contribute to this fake post any further [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.23.08, 01:59 PM Flag
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THIS IS NOT FAKE! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.23.08, 02:00 PM Flag
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Rusty, you ARE the father! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.23.08, 02:01 PM Flag
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Are you planning on keeping the baby? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.23.08, 02:00 PM Flag
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have an abortion [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.23.08, 02:01 PM Flag
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if you are regular, no way you could have conceived both in early may and mid may, it's either or. your ob should be able to tell you. and don't listen to the b*tches here, make your own decisions yourself. too bad you are uncomfortable to tell your mom. i want my dd to be able to tell me if that happens to her [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.23.08, 02:06 PM Flag
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