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06.23.08, 12:45 PM General Topics
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wwyd? Dh told me in an arguement that he saw an divorce attorney. I noticed that he had a change of beneficiary papers on his desk and that he got a new cc. I have no access to the checking account and he is abusive as well. I have been ging to the domestic groups for counseling for over a year with my dcs. What will happen to us? I am scared. tia [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
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I'm too busy trying to figure out why you're still with him [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 12:46 PM Flag
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Sadly, i was trying to make a safe plan to leave him and now i see that he is trying to screw me out of everything besides my mental health [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 12:47 PM Flag
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well, time to reactivate the plan and stick with it [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 01:04 PM Flag
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if he is abusive, you need to get yourself and your kids out of there. Talk to the domestic violence people. They can help - really [ Reply | More ]
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Xerox everything you can get ahold of. Why don't you have access to the checking account? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 12:48 PM Flag
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I have made copies of things. I came across the beneficiary papers and was shocked, although he hasn't filled them out yet [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 12:50 PM Flag
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np- he cant change the beneficiary without your approval [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 01:03 PM Flag
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Why don't you have access to the checking account? You need to get out of this situation. Go to a family members house or a friends house. It will all be fine! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 12:48 PM Flag
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before you do anything, see an attorney. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 12:51 PM Flag
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He is going to file - get an attorney asap [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 12:49 PM Flag
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He can file, but he will lose custody of the dcs [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 12:51 PM Flag
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he probably doesn't care about that... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 12:52 PM Flag
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op-he threatens to take them, i just laugh inside...more abuse [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 12:54 PM Flag
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NP: how do you say that? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 12:52 PM Flag
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He has been arrested for domestic abuse and it's been documented in my domestic groups for over a year about his behavior [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 12:53 PM Flag
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that's relief... it will also really help in the divorce proceedings... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 12:55 PM Flag
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It's the only place that gives me hope. I don't trust him anymore [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 12:56 PM Flag
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one would hope [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 01:05 PM Flag
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