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06.23.08, 12:29 PM General Topics
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What is something about your DH that he doesn't want people to know? [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 12:29 PM Flag
 

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he has sucked the dick of other men. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 12:30 PM Flag
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when? why? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 12:31 PM Flag
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4 years ago, before we were married. self debasement. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 12:32 PM Flag
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who was the guy? what lead DH to do it? did you know DH at the time? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 12:32 PM Flag
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craig's list. found out a year later. we had been dating. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 12:33 PM Flag
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How did you find out? What did you do when you found out? What did DH say? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 12:34 PM Flag
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i was searching his emails because there was a woman who seemed to be starting an emotional relationship with him and i had asked him to stop communicating with her. i cancelled all my lessons for the day, went to the bookstore, came home after he arrived home and calmly said that i thought that we would be having a very difficult time ahead of us in the next few months, years. he denied it (that he was bi, which his email to the guy said) and i did not believe him. told him he would need to sek therapy and i went to my therapist 2 times to talk about it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 12:38 PM Flag
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how is being bi self-debasement [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 12:39 PM Flag
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^^^^by the way, my therapist told me there are many, many, many men who do it and that there really are no bi-sexuals. that there are gay men and straight men. i read readings on this that he [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 12:39 PM Flag
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IDA with that. Most people are bi sexual to some degree [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 12:42 PM Flag
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well, that's not something i feel like debating here. you are welcome to your opinion. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 12:50 PM Flag
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How has it been since then? Has your DH had any other sexual relations with a man? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 12:40 PM Flag
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took a long time to gain trust back but it is great. if we could get through that, we can get through anything. he is the most incredible man i know. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 12:45 PM Flag
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I would never check DH's e-mail? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 12:40 PM Flag
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What was DH's reaction when you told him what you found? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 12:41 PM Flag
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terribly sad. he has never wanted to have a family with anyone else. i was very sad for him and understood it as it was- self debasement, and a painful response to being in pain. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 12:44 PM Flag
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how did the two of you get through it? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 12:45 PM Flag
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time, caring, respect, understanding. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 12:45 PM Flag
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how was it self-debasement? I don't know what that means really- am curious [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 12:46 PM Flag
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because he was not turned off by it. he was sickened by it. it is a way of saying, you are so base, so dispicable- what is the thing that will make you feel the worst about yourself, and go do it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 12:49 PM Flag
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^^^^not turned ON by it [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 12:50 PM Flag
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I can see why he (and you) would not want people to know that [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 12:31 PM Flag
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not telling [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 12:31 PM Flag
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That he whistles in his sleep [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 12:31 PM Flag
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He watches chick flicks [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 12:32 PM Flag
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That he was raped once [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 12:32 PM Flag
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That he cries in sad movies [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 12:32 PM Flag
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That he sold his sperm [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 12:33 PM Flag
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That he had to share a bed with his twin brother when they were 14 for about 3 months [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 12:33 PM Flag
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He's in AA [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 12:35 PM Flag
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nobody knows he is black? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 12:37 PM Flag
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He only has one working testicle. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 12:40 PM Flag
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What happened? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 12:41 PM Flag
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undescended testicle as a child - surgery corrected it, but the testicle is non-functional. 2 DCs, BTW - no intervention, so the other one works just fine. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 12:42 PM Flag
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very good! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 12:44 PM Flag
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so the other one is on welfare? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 12:41 PM Flag
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skating by on the success of the other one. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 12:43 PM Flag
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lol [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 12:43 PM Flag
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