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06.23.08, 10:32 AM General Topics
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DHs out there: how many husbands do you know who are cheating on their wives? I think it is pervasive, but then second guess because I can't believe someone would risk wife and family (but that is my fear, not necessarily theirs, I guess.) [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 10:32 AM Flag
 

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I am guessing 20% [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 10:33 AM Flag
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really--so 1 on 5. That is scary. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 10:34 AM Flag
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over a marriage though, not at any given momet [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 10:35 AM Flag
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DH here: I know 1 who is cheating fulltime and 1 who had a one night stand. Every other DH I know would never cheat. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 10:34 AM Flag
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I am a cheating DH, any questios for me [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 10:35 AM Flag
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why are you such a sleazebag? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 10:36 AM Flag
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I am not a sleazebag, I love my wife [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 10:39 AM Flag
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then explain the cheating. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 10:39 AM Flag
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I have a high sex drive and need more sex than my wife wants. Is just an activity. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 10:40 AM Flag
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real sex or online sex? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 10:41 AM Flag
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real [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 10:50 AM Flag
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could mast. work? DO you have kids? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 10:41 AM Flag
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yes 2 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 10:51 AM Flag
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Geraldo is that you? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 10:41 AM Flag
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that is such a cop out [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 10:44 AM Flag
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ITA. Grow up, selfish pig [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 10:51 AM Flag
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Wow. Just an activity. Does the other woman feel this way too?? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 10:44 AM Flag
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np who cares about the other woman? She is a sleezebag too. What about his poor wife? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 10:46 AM Flag
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so I assume you have communicated this to your wife and she understands? Otherwise you = sleazebag [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 10:54 AM Flag
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I haven't told her about the affair, she knows I want more sex thoguh. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 10:55 AM Flag
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so she doesn't know, sleazebag [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 10:58 AM Flag
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do you love the other woman too? How long has this been going on?? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 10:40 AM Flag
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Been going on a year, don't love the other woman, actually I find her personality annoying, but she's good im bed [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 10:51 AM Flag
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ok you just outed yourself as lying. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 10:57 AM Flag
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where do you live? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 11:01 AM Flag
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outside of new york [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 11:44 AM Flag
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no you don't [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 10:40 AM Flag
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do you cheat sporadically or do cheat consistently w/ one woman? Does your wife know? Would she leave you if she did? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 10:37 AM Flag
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One woman, she doesn't know and she probably would leave. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 10:38 AM Flag
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then why do it? why not man up and be honest? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 10:40 AM Flag
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I need sex and I don't want to hurt my wife, I mean I love her [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 10:53 AM Flag
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no you don't. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 10:55 AM Flag
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ita. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 10:57 AM Flag
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He's here all the time- has every excuse in the book [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 11:46 AM Flag
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Would you be okay if she cheated on you? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 10:42 AM Flag
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I wouldn't be happy, but would want to hear her explanation [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 10:52 AM Flag
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You're on here a lot aren't ya. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 12:25 PM Flag
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not a DH but mine tells me about people he meets or knows through work etc who cheat. It seems to be a pretty small minority. He always avoids them. He said he loses all respect for someone who would do that - esp if they have kids [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 10:36 AM Flag
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in their defense - I think there are some DHs who are conflicted about it. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 10:38 AM Flag
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probably so but they are still assholes. I like the fact that DH will not associate with someone who is doing that [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 10:39 AM Flag
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I used to be you. Wait till you the situation faces you. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 10:40 AM Flag
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I would not cheat. Period. Neither would DH. It's not like I live in a bubble. We have both been tempted but we would not act on it. Ever. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 10:43 AM Flag
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NP: each situation is different, and wrought. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 10:43 AM Flag
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Again. Situational. Don't judge. You aren't there. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 10:45 AM Flag
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nnp: I hate this argument. I've never been in the situation where I felt it ok to murder an innocent person. Does that mean I can't say I'll never be a murderer? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 11:02 AM Flag
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This guy has every way to get around the truth- plus why is he always on ub bragging about his cheating. lame [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 11:49 AM Flag
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In my groups of friends one cheater BUT I found out he was cheating 'cause his wife found out... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 10:39 AM Flag
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? wait she cheated first? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 10:39 AM Flag
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No. She found out he was cheating. Everything blew up. Then the friends found out. But none of the guys knew he was cheating until then. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 10:51 AM Flag
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DH here: I know exactly one, but he is doing it spectacular fashion. It's like a goddamned soap opera on acid. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 11:04 AM Flag
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ohh! Pray tell! Details! is it the baby sitter? Some hot russian model? His secretary? All of the above? Is it even a female? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 11:13 AM Flag
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yeah tell us!! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 11:43 AM Flag
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well, without getting so specific that I'll out the suffering wife, her husband (who has a serious substance abuse problem) works a loosely supervised job in NYC for a company based overseas. he went on about a dozen business trips over the last 18 months, many for more than a week. turns out (first) that he was getting some on the side, (then) that it was a regular thing with 1 woman, (and next) that there wasn't any business being done at all... he was paying for the trips with his savings (but even better) the other woman started harrassing the wife, to the point where the number had to be changed. And of course, neither one can afford the house on their own. And he's completely unrepentant. It's horrible but fascinating. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 12:02 PM Flag
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why are you worried about what men other than your dh do? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 11:45 AM Flag
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As a wife who just found out I was cheated on, I think the number is suprisingly high. I would have bet my life on the fact that dh was completely faithful but he had a whole other life that I didn't know anything about. I don't know how he had the time. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 12:09 PM Flag
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wow. What are you doing now? How did you find out? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 12:26 PM Flag
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How did you find out? Are you still together? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 12:26 PM Flag
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