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06.23.08, 10:15 AM General Topics
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DH has not initiated sex with me in months...its never been a strong suit of his. [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 06.23.08, 10:15 AM Flag
 

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Have you initiated with him? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.23.08, 10:16 AM Flag
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When was the last time you had sex? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.23.08, 10:16 AM Flag
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5 mos. ago [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.23.08, 10:17 AM Flag
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Why so long? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.23.08, 10:17 AM Flag
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I think he is not attracted to me? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.23.08, 10:20 AM Flag
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Have you chanegd at all? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.23.08, 10:20 AM Flag
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Why do you think that? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.23.08, 10:20 AM Flag
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How old is he? Why is he like this? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.23.08, 10:16 AM Flag
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41, I think he prefers masturbation to me...have you ever heard of this before? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.23.08, 10:18 AM Flag
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That's weird. How often does he masturbate? Have you talked to him about it? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.23.08, 10:18 AM Flag
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I think a lot. I asked him not to do it in bed next to me (when he thought I was asleep), that is the most conversation we ever had and that was in marriage counseling [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.23.08, 10:19 AM Flag
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what did he say when you said it? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.23.08, 10:20 AM Flag
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ok [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.23.08, 10:23 AM Flag
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What was he like early in your relationship? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.23.08, 10:18 AM Flag
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Was he sexually abused earlier? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.23.08, 10:16 AM Flag
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no [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.23.08, 10:19 AM Flag
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weird.....that would be an explanation [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.23.08, 10:19 AM Flag
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I have an idea for you [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.23.08, 10:20 AM Flag
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please share [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.23.08, 10:21 AM Flag
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Maybe you can wear sexy lingerie to bed and seduce him, maybe when he's in bed, come in and then stradle him and start undressing him or surprise him in the shower [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.23.08, 10:21 AM Flag
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I have another, but need to know one thing first.....what does he wear to bed? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.23.08, 10:22 AM Flag
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he sleeps naked, I sleep in tee shirt or pajamas [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.23.08, 10:25 AM Flag
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Ah nice.....works perfectly then. Both of you go to sleep like normal, except you don't go to sleep. You undress quietly when he's sleeping and then climb on top of him and start kissing him rubbing yourself on him and go down for a BJ and then go ahead for more. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.23.08, 10:27 AM Flag
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I am a DH, here's my question, is he stressed at work at all? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.23.08, 10:21 AM Flag
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sure but that is an ongoing issue since our marriage began. Plus, I know he is masturbating at least a couple of times a week (that I know of). [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.23.08, 10:22 AM Flag
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that's weird.......one thought that came to me, is that sometimes when I am stressed I would rather not have sex since i am afraid if I can keep it up, I would hate it more with my wife than masturbating [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.23.08, 10:24 AM Flag
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another dh: has his testosterone been checked? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.23.08, 10:23 AM Flag
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Hey good thinking. Yes, I asked him to have it checked and he agreed - it was slightly low but def. normal/ [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.23.08, 10:24 AM Flag
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First DH: This sounds really weird.....is he cheating? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.23.08, 10:25 AM Flag
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Of course its possible but I have asked him. Can you tell me some thingsthat would turn you off from your wife? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.23.08, 10:29 AM Flag
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Have you changed in any way? Physically I mean? How many kids? When was your last romantic weekend? When was the last time you two had a date? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.23.08, 10:30 AM Flag
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Yup I have gained weight. Is that a deal breaker for you even if you were really horny and just wanted to get laid? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.23.08, 10:31 AM Flag
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You know probably not....if I was horny and wanted to get laid I probably would have sex with you.....my wife did have a sligth weight gain for abotu a year after our second child and we still had sex. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.23.08, 10:33 AM Flag
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well this is more than 10 pounds...but I look around me and see a lot of fat women who are married so someone is sleeping with them... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.23.08, 10:34 AM Flag
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Has he mentioned it to you? Have you tried to lose some of it? when was your last romantic weekend? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.23.08, 10:35 AM Flag
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a lot of weight? Has he? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.23.08, 10:33 AM Flag
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We ve both gained weight but it never seems to matter for the man [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.23.08, 10:36 AM Flag
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another dh: if my weight goes up, it effects me. I don't feel as desirable and am probably less aggressive. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.23.08, 10:42 AM Flag
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when we were trying to concieve #2, dw took every bit of fun out of our sex life. It was like she was in school and I was helping her with her science fair project. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.23.08, 10:36 AM Flag
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DH Here: I remember that with both our kids.....I honestly thought it was a homework assignment. Watching the Food Network was more fun than sex......after that was out of the way, sex got really good again [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.23.08, 10:37 AM Flag
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Yes, but when we were in high school, that's the type of science fair project that we'd volunteer to help a girl with [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.23.08, 10:38 AM Flag
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true dat! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 06.23.08, 10:40 AM Flag
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