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06.22.08, 17:42 PM General Topics
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My sexual drive has significantly slowed down after my mother died about 2 years ago. We still have sex but I used to be the initiator and now I do participate, but it feels more obligatory. I hate feeling like this. DH has said nothing. Perhaps he hasn't noticed but has anyone else gone through this after a parent dies? [ Reply | Watch | Flag ]
General Topics 06.22.08, 05:42 PM Flag
 

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low grade depression [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.22.08, 05:44 PM Flag
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i think you may be right. maybe I should go back to therapy [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.22.08, 05:47 PM Flag
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well, how old are you? Why do you assume that is the reason. Libido changes with age, unfortunately. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.22.08, 05:45 PM Flag
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OP: only 35. really? I thought I was in my "sexual prime" whatever that is??? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.22.08, 05:47 PM Flag
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well, you're young so my observation does not apply to you. Maybe you're a little depressed. My mom died 7 years ago and I cried about her today. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.22.08, 05:49 PM Flag
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thanks. i think i may have some unresolved issues with my mom on top of losing her so maybe I should go see someone. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.22.08, 05:51 PM Flag
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Sounds like you are depressed. This dh went into a deep tailspin after losing my step-father five years ago. I dove right into therapy like a drowning man grabbing onto a log. Therapy was long and often painful, but it did wonders for me. Just be prepared that you might come out as a different version of yourself. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 06.22.08, 09:57 PM Flag
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